Matthew 10:27-42:  “Jesus’ Hardest Sayings On Discipleship

by

Jim Bomkamp

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1.                 INTRO:

 

1.1.         In this next section of the gospel of Matthew, we see that Jesus gives His hardest teachings concerning what true discipleship means.  For instance, He teaches that for anyone who would follow Him, true discipleship means:

 

1.1.1.  Speaking in the light the truth He speaks to us in darkness, and proclaiming upon the rooftop what He teaches us in secret

1.1.2.  Not fearing those who can kill the body, but instead doing all that we do in a reverential fear of Him who is able to cast body and soul into hell

1.1.3.  Confessing Him before men, which in turn causes Him to confess Him before His father in heaven (instead of denying that He knows us)

1.1.4.  Not allowing the love even for a father, mother, son, or daughter come before our love for Him

1.1.5.  Taking up our cross and following Him

 

1.2.         In the midst of this very hard teaching concerning the meaning of true discipleship, Jesus gives us the tremendous encouragement that the Father knows every hair on our heads and thus we should know that we can trust Him to do what is best for us in our life in all circumstances

 

2.                 VS 10:27  - “27 “What I tell you in the darkness, speak in the light; and what you hear whispered in your ear, proclaim upon the housetops”” -  Jesus tells His disciples that the things that He tells them they are to proclaim in the most public way

 

2.1.         It is really such a wonderful privilege that we share in as Christians in that the Lord does speak to us about His truth in those quiet and peaceful moments in our life, and especially when we open up His word in our daily quiet times and meditate upon it speaking with Him in prayer

2.1.1.  His truth burns within our hearts

2.2.         Truth that the Lord shares with us is not meant just to be appreciated by us perhaps the way we appreciate a fine meal over an average or sub-par one, but rather we Christians have a responsibility and stewardship with the truth that we have received

2.2.1.  The truth that God speaks to us is not just for us, but we should be willing as the Holy Spirit leads us, to share all that He speaks to us to everyone we can

2.2.2.  In Luke 12:48b, Jesus said the following which emphasizes the fact that God holds us accountable for the light He has given us, “And from everyone who has been given much shall much be required

2.2.3.  When we were young it was pressure from our peers that we had to combat if we were truly to stand for the truth, however as we have gotten older it is still ‘the fear of man’ with which we must contend if we are to follow Jesus

2.2.3.1.The scripture teaches us that “the fear of man brings a snare”, Prov. 29:25

2.2.3.2.We Christians often hold back from standing for the truth because of what we fear may happen to us if we do so

2.2.3.2.1.We could lose our job, career, marriage, children, etc.

2.2.3.3.Jesus wants us to use wisdom and common sense but also to stand for the truth and leave the consequences of doing so to God

2.2.3.4.God wants us to take a stand for what is written in His Word, to hold to it, and follow the light of His Word where it leads us

2.2.3.4.1.All of the great men of God and prophets in history-past have lived their lives in this way

2.2.4.  The church must beled and structured in such a way that it stands for and responds to the truth of God’s Word, however it may cut, for if the church doesn’t stand for the truth, who will?

2.2.4.1.Though the church must be sensitive to the needs of people, tactful, and gentle in its dealings, for this is what love does, it must also never do these things so that it compromises the truth in doing so

2.2.5.  What are you doing with what you know?  Are you a good steward with the truth that the Lord has given you in your life?

 

3.                 VS 10:28  - “28 “And do not fear those who kill the body, but are unable to kill the soul; but rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell”” -  Jesus teaches His disciples that they are not to fear man but rather God

 

3.1.         To understand this verse, we should first understand that Jesus through His teachings was constantly trying to get people to realize the importance of the eternal things over the temporal earthly things

3.1.1.  The things of this world are going to pass away, and we cannot take anything from this life with us when we die

3.1.2.  There will be an eternal life that every single person will live, and they will either spend eternity in heaven with the Lord or they will spend it in the torments of hell

3.1.3.  Jesus tried to show how foolish it is to be short-sided and to live for the things of this life, a life which is so short and whose goods and thrills can satisfy for such a short season, when you will spend an eternity reaping the fruit of the choices made in your life

3.1.4.  In Luke 12:16-21, Jesus told His disciples a story about a foolish man who sought to build bigger barns to store all of his crops but did not lay up treasure in heaven, “16 And He told them a parable, saying, “The land of a certain rich man was very productive. 17 “And he began reasoning to himself, saying, ‘What shall I do, since I have no place to store my crops?’ 18 “And he said, ‘This is what I will do: I will tear down my barns and build larger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. 19 ‘And I will say to my soul, “Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years to come; take your ease, eat, drink and be merry.”’ 20 “But God said to him, ‘You fool! This very night your soul is required of you; and now who will own what you have prepared?’ 21 “So is the man who lays up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God””

3.1.4.1.How are you laying up treasures for heaven in your life? 

3.1.4.2.What treasures will you have for all eternity?

3.1.5.  In Mark 8:36a, Jesus said that even if a person gained every treasure and every pleasure that this world has to offer but was not laying up treasure in heaven, he would end up being a fool and a total loser, “For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world, and forfeit his soul?”

3.2.         We see here in these verses the fact that man has an eternal soul, and that this soul will live on when this body passes away, and this soul shall have an eternal destination and existence (of life) as well

3.3.         We Christians should not worry about dying or being killed because of our faith in Christ because if we die will just go straight into the arms of Jesus and spend eternity in paradise with Him, and for the icing on the cake, if we died as a martyr for Him we will gain a martry’s crown and reward

3.4.         Even though we Christians are ‘justified’ (made just as if we had never sinned) as a result of receiving Christ as our Lord and Savior, and thus we do not have to fear judgment for Christ took our judgment upon Himself, none-the-less we still do need to have a healthy ‘fear’ of the Lord

3.5.         The ‘fear’ that a Christian should have for the Lord is really just a ‘reverence’ and ‘utmost respect’ for the Lord because of all that He is as well as all of the wonderful things that He has done and does for us, His children

3.5.1.  As a result we must desire to not do anything in our lives with which He is not pleased, or anything which will bring disrepute upon His Name

3.6.         We Christians must then not live in fear and trembling worrying about what men may do to us, but rather we must respect and revere the Lord so much that we want to please, obey, and glorify Him with every area of our life

3.7.         Non-Christians, however, should fear and tremble the impending judgment that will occur from the Lord on the final day of judgment for the world, called the “Great White Throne Judgment”, where He will cast the body and soul of every non-believer into the lake of fire that burns for eternity (Rev. 20:11-15)

 

4.                 VS 10:28-31  - “29 “Are not two sparrows sold for a cent? And yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father, 30 “But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. 31 “Therefore do not fear; you are of more value than many sparrows”” -  Jesus teaches His disciples that they are of great value to God

 

4.1.         The comparison used by Jesus here is that of a child of God to a ‘sparrow’

4.1.1.  The price of sparrows really has not gone up over time, for they have never really been greatly valued as they are not used as a source really for anything that is useful

4.1.2.  In Jesus’ day a person could buy sparrows dirt cheap, two sparrows could be purchased for a single cent of money

4.1.3.  Jesus teaches here that God watches over the sparrows

4.1.4.  Not one sparrow falls out of the sky and hits the ground ‘apart from the Father’

4.1.4.1.In using the phrase ‘apart from the Father’, Jesus is teaching something more than the fact that the Lord knows about the injury to or death of a sparrow.  Rather, He watches over them, protects them, and provides for them

4.1.5.  Jesus teaches here what should be obvious, we who are the only creatures created in God’s image, and who have now been redeemed and adopted as sons and daughters into God’s family are of much greater value to God than many sparrows

4.1.5.1.It has been very interesting to me how since the 60’s there have been people who have tried to elevate animals to the status of people or sometimes even greater in their importance, however this has never been the mindset of God

4.2.         Jesus teaches here that God is concerned for His children to the degree that the very hairs on their heads are numbered

4.2.1.  Even a human parent does not have this great of a love for his child, only God cares so greatly for His children

4.3.         If you want to know how much you are worth to God, I can tell you.  You are worth so much that He bought you with the price of the blood of His only and unique Son.  That is how much you are worth.  You are priceless to God…

5.                 It is important for us to realize the context for this verse, for in the midst of giving His discples some of His hardest teachings concerning ‘true discipleship’ and taking a stand for Christ and the truth, Jesus teaches that we need not fear the consequences of doing so because our very hairs on your head are numbered since our heavenly Father cares so much for us, and He will watch out for us and do what is best for us in every circumstance

 

6.                 VS 10:32-33  - “32 “Everyone therefore who shall confess Me before men, I will also confess him before My Father who is in heaven. 33 “But whoever shall deny Me before men, I will also deny him before My Father who is in heaven”” -  Jesus teaches here that if we will own Him in this life He will own us in the next

 

6.1.         We are all called to confess Jesus Christ, confess that we know Him, confess to others of who He is and how that they might be able to be saved

6.2.         We can deny Him by

6.2.1.  Not saying anything at all to anyone about our being a Christian

6.2.2.  Not telling others the good news of the gospel of salvation

6.3.         The promise:

6.3.1.  If we confess Him before men, He will confess us before His Father in heaven

6.4.         The warning:

6.4.1.  If we deny him, He will likewise deny us before His Father in heaven

6.5.         In Mark 8:38, Jesus said these same things in a little different way, “38 “For whoever is ashamed of Me and My words in this adulterous and sinful generation, the Son of Man will also be ashamed of him when He comes in the glory of His Father with the holy angels.””

6.6.         I love Paul’s words in the book of Romans when he writes, “I am not ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ”, Rom. 1:16

6.6.1.  Are you ashamed of Jesus?  Ashamed to tell people that you belong to and follow Jesus Christ?

 

7.                 VS 10:34-36  - “34 “Do not think that I came to bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 “For I came to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; 36 and a man’s enemies will be the members of his household”” -  Jesus teaches His disciples here that He did not come to bring peace on earth, but a sword

 

7.1.         The gospel message divides people, and it always has done so, it separates those who are under God’s punishment from those who are His children

7.2.         As I have mentioned before, in this world you as a Christian can talk about so many topics, some even which are heated topics, however when you bring up the Name of Jesus or salvation through Him, it is the one topic that will turn every conversation into either an evangelistic opportunity (for those open to hear the good news), great fellowship (between Christians), or a difficult experience (usually open hostility or heated argument)

7.2.1.  The entire world is being divided up along lines, the gospel of Christ does that, for you are either for Him or you are against Him

7.3.         This brings up the question, however, for didn’t the angel Gabriel announce to shepherds at Christ’s birth ‘peace on earth among men of good will?’

7.3.1.  Yes, absolutely He did.  However, the peace He is talking about is only experienced among men of good will, which means men and women who have likewise given their lives to Christ and received Him as their Lord and Savior

7.3.2.  As I have mentioned previously there will be in this world persecution that occurs within a person’s own family

7.3.2.1.History has revealed over and over the truth in this promise of Jesus’ here that Christian people have been turned over to authorities for persecution, torture, and martyrdom by the members of their own family

7.3.2.2.In some cultures today, families will actually have a funeral and count as dead a family member who has turned to Christ for salvation

 

8.                 VS 10:37  - “37 “He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me”” -  Jesus teaches that we must love Him above even our family members

 

8.1.         Jesus says here that we are not ‘worthy’ of Him if we love our father, mother, or son more than Him

8.2.         Jesus must be our greatest love, our one passion, and our very lives if we are to be His people

8.2.1.  In 2 Cor. 5:14-16, Paul wrote about how our love for Christ because of all that He has in love done for us controls or constrains us and causes us to be willing to live our life for Him and be willing to do anything that He wants us to do, “14 For the love of Christ controls us, having concluded this, that one died for all, therefore all died; 15 and He died for all, that they who live should no longer live for themselves, but for Him who died and rose again on their behalf. 16 Therefore from now on we recognize no man according to the flesh; even though we have known Christ according to the flesh, yet now we know Him thus no longer”.

8.2.2.  Seeing how awesome and great He is and how small and insignificant that we are it is only right and our due that we have this kind of great love for the Lord

8.2.3.  A question then to as ask ourselves is whether or not we are allowing any other person or thing come inbetween us and the Lord and what He wants us to do in our life on any given day?

8.2.4.  Are you willing to go against parents or children if to do so would be to disobey the Lord and not do anything He has shown you to do?

 

9.                 VS 10:38-39  - “38 “And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. 39 “He who has found his life shall lose it, and he who has lost his life for My sake shall find it”” -  Jesus teaches that we must be willing to take up our cross and follow Him

 

9.1.         This saying by Jesus immediately brought  to His disciples minds the visual image of death by crucifixion

9.1.1.  At the point in time when Jesus taught this, crucifixion was a horribly cruel and painful form of punishment used by Rome on those notorious prisoners whose capital punishment would serve as a stern reminder to all that Rome was a force to be dealt with if one found himself on the wrong side of Rome

9.1.2.  By saying this Jesus’ disciples knew that Jesus meant that a disciple of His must die to himself and serve and follow Christ with all of his life and that He must even be willing to die for Jesus if he should be called upon to do so

9.2.         Jesus does not say here that a disciple of His must be willing to have someone nail him upon a cross, rather that a disciple of Jesus must be will to take up his own cross and carry to the place of crucifixion

9.2.1.  We must of our own free will offer up our lives to Christ as a holy sacrifice unto Him if we desire to be called one of His people

9.3.         Jesus says that we are worthy of knowing Him and having Him as our Lord if we are not also willing to die to ourselves and let Him live His life fully through us

9.3.1.  In Phil 1:21a, Paul wrote, “21 For to me, to live is Christ”, and each of us as Christ’s people must have this same attitude toward our own lives

9.4.         Jesus teaches here that if we live our lives for ourselves and the things that we desire to do we have found our lives, and the result of this kind of living is that when we die we will lose our life, for we shall spend eternity in hell

9.5.         However, if we lose our life by giving it completely to Christ to do with us whatever He wants to do, then we shall find it to life eternal spent with Christ in heaven for eternity

 

10.            VS 10:40  - “40 “He who receives you receives Me, and he who receives Me receives Him who sent Me”” -  Jesus teaches that those who receive us His disciples also receive Him

 

10.1.    Jesus is teaching here that we are His ambassadors, and as such we go in His Name and authority, and thus those whom we reach He reaches for He is leading us and moving within our lives

10.2.    Jesus also teaches that anyone who receives Him also receives God the Father

10.2.1.Some say that the Bible never mentions the Trinity, and though the word ‘Trinity’ is never found in the Bible, there are many verses such as this verse which provides a glimpse of the Trinity to the one whose mind is open to the truth

10.2.2.Jesus provides the only way to get to the Father, and thus if we come to know Him we come to know the Father also, for He and the Father are one in divine essence

 

11.            VS 10:41  - “41 “He who receives a prophet in the name of a prophet shall receive a prophet’s reward; and he who receives a righteous man in the name of a righteous man shall receive a righteous man’s reward”” -  Jesus teaches that the one who receives a prophet will also receive a prophet’s reward

 

11.1.    We cannot all be prophets, however we have this promise from God’s Word that though we ourselves are not a prophet, that by receiving a prophet into our homes and/or assisting them in their ministry we shall share in the eternal rewards that will be given to those who are called by God to be prophets

11.2.    To receive a righteous man in the name of a righteous man would mean to take the recommendation of a godly man concerning another man and his ministry, and thus to be again willing to receive this recommended brother or sister into our homes and/or assist them in their ministry

11.3.    Those who are in the ministry, especially those who are called to begin ground up ministries, need much help along their way if they are going to be able to fulfill the calling that God has placed upon their lives, and thus with the great rewards promised those who are willing to help such ones, we all would be wise to help such men

 

12.            VS 10:42  - “42 “And whoever in the name of a disciple gives to one of these little ones even a cup of cold water to drink, truly I say to you he shall not lose his reward”” -  Jesus teaches that even the smallest service of giving a cup of cold water to someone who is thirsty shall be rewarded

 

12.1.    The economy of God for His servants is truly remarkable:

12.1.1.God forgets not one of our labors for Him, and it is a truth that even the smallest labor for Him shall justify a reward one day when we get to heaven

12.1.2.All of us as Christ’s disciples will be rewarded not based upon how greatly we are gifted for ministry, but rather upon how much we were willing to use the gifts and abilities we have for others and in ministry

12.1.3.  All of us who are God’s children would be content with far less than this from the Lord, but because He is such a wonderful and loving Father He delights in giving lavishly to His children

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