Rom. 12:16-21, “How To Conduct Yourself In the Body Of Christ:  Part #2

 

By

Jim Bomkamp

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1.     INTRO:

 

1.1.                     In our last study, we looked at verses 9-15.

 

1.1.1.  We saw that for the rest of chapter 12 that Paul will give us various exhortations regarding how we need to conduct ourselves in the body of Christ so as to maximize healthy body life.

 

1.1.2.  We noted that how we treat each other in the body of Christ is a testimony to the world of the character of our Christian lives and it also has a big impact upon how the body of Christ itself fares. 

 

1.1.3.  We saw that the various exhortations Paul will give in this chapter emphasize maintaining your conduct upon the basis of what living out God’s “agape love” requires of us.

 

1.1.4.  It was mentioned that how we treat each other in the body of Christ is a direct reflection of our “vertical relationship” with the Lord.  In other words, we will love others to the same degree and in the same way that we are experiencing the love of God in our own lives, which is the result of the vitality of our spiritual walk with Christ.  The body of Christ then becomes a vehicle given to us by God for receiving the love of God as well as dispensing it.

 

1.1.5.  We Discussed some of my own experiences with the body of Christ and how that the Lord had allowed me great preparation for ministry by using these experiences to show me what the body of Christ is meant to look like and function like.

 

1.2.                     In our study today, we are going to finish out chapter 12 looking at verses 16-23.

 

1.2.1.  As was mentioned in our last study, the body of Christ can be such a great light to the people of this world.  When the body of Christ is functioning as it should in love it can be used by God in such a powerful way.  There are so many testimonies that I could share of God working mightily through the body of Christ, but here is one I came across :

 

1.2.1.1.      How the hymn “Blessed Be The Ties That Bind” came to be written :

 

In 1765 John Fawcett was called to pastor a very small congregation at Wainsgate, England. He labored there diligently for 7 years, but his salary was so meager that he and his wife could scarcely obtain the necessities of life. Though the people were poor, they compensated for this lack by their faithfulness and warm fellowship.

Then Dr. Fawcett received a call from a much larger church in London, and after lengthy consideration decided to accept the invitation. As his few possessions were being placed in a wagon for moving, many of his parishioners came to say good-bye. Once again they pleaded with him to reconsider.

Touched by this great outpouring of love, he and his wife began to weep. Finally Mrs. Fawcett exclaimed, “O John, I just can’t bear this. They need us so badly here.” “God has spoken to my heart, too!” he said. “Tell them to unload the wagon! We cannot break these wonderful ties of fellowship.”

This experience inspired Fawcett to write a hymn. “Blest be the tie that binds our hearts in Christian love! The fellowship of kindred mind is like to that above.”

—H. G. Bosch

1.2.2.  The formation of the church as seen in the New Testament includes the following :

 

1.2.2.1.      From the earliest parts of Jesus’ ministry to the disciples it was evident that He was planning to create a unique functional organization or organization with His disciples.  Jesus and His inner circle of disciples lived together and were treated as a family sharing all things together.  Jesus told His disciples directly that He was going to establish His church in Matthew 16:18, and that this church would last for eternity, “18 I also say to you that you are Peter, and upon this rock I will build My church; and the gates of Hades will not overpower it.”

 

1.2.2.2.      Likewise, in the early church it was the case that the body of Christ initially had such a great bond amongst themselves that they lived together communally and shared all things in common, as can be seen from Acts 2:44-46, “44 And all those who had believed were together and had all things in common; 45 and they began selling their property and possessions and were sharing them with all, as anyone might have need. 46 Day by day continuing with one mind in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, they were taking their meals together with gladness and sincerity of heart.”

 

1.2.2.3.      As we look in the New Testament we see that though there is mentioned the universal body of Christ which is comprised of all of those who have come to faith in Jesus Christ, that it was also the case that as the Lord led the early church in their church planting that localized miniature representations of the body of Christ were formed in city after city:  Antioch (Acts 11:25-26), Caesarea (Acts 18:22), Cenchrea (Rom. 16:1), Corinth (1 Cor. 1:2), Jerusalem (Acts 8:1), Thessalonica (1 Thes. 1:1), Ephesus (Rev. 2:1), Smyrna (Rev. 2:8), Pergamos (Rev. 2:12), Thyatira (Rev. 2:18), Sardis (Rev. 3:1), Philadelphia (Rev. 3:7), Laodicea (Col. 4:16,Rev. 3:14), etc.

 

1.2.2.4.      From Paul’s writings we see the fact that every single Christian is a part of the body of Christ, as evidenced from 1 Corinthians 12:27, “27 Now you are Christ’s body, and individually members of it.”

 

1.2.2.5.      Paul also teaches the fact that as Christ has been exalted over all things that He has also been placed as head over the body of Christ :

 

1.2.2.5.1.           Ephesians 1:22-23, “22 And He put all things in subjection under His feet, and gave Him as head over all things to the church, 23 which is His body, the fullness of Him who fills all in all.” 

 

1.2.2.5.2.           Colossians 1:18, “18 He is also head of the body, the church; and He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, so that He Himself will come to have first place in everything.”

 

1.2.2.5.3.           Colossians 2:19, “19 and not holding fast to the head, from whom the entire body, being supplied and held together by the joints and ligaments, grows with a growth which is from God.”

 

1.2.2.6.      We have talked about how that in the body of Christ we have all been given spiritual gifts and that there is a diversity of functions which we are to perform :

 

1.2.2.6.1.           Romans 12:4-5, “4 For just as we have many members in one body and all the members do not have the same function, 5 so we, who are many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.”

 

1.2.2.7.      The fact that unity is to be maintained in the body of Christ is expressed in several places, including :

 

1.2.2.7.1.           Jesus prayed to the Father just before His crucifixion that there would be unity in the body of Christ in John 17:20-23, “20 I do not ask on behalf of these alone, but for those also who believe in Me through their word; 21 that they may all be one; even as You, Father, are in Me and I in You, that they also may be in Us, so that the world may believe that You sent Me. 22 “The glory which You have given Me I have given to them, that they may be one, just as We are one; 23 I in them and You in Me, that they may be perfected in unity, so that the world may know that You sent Me, and loved them, even as You have loved Me.” 

 

1.2.2.7.2.           Paul wrote of the fact of unity in the body of Christ in Romans 12:5, “5 so we, who are many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.” 

 

1.2.2.7.3.           Paul exhorted us to be of one mind and as much as possible maintain unity in the body of Christ in 1 Corinthians 1:10-13, “10 Now I exhort you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you all agree and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be made complete in the same mind and in the same judgment. 11 For I have been informed concerning you, my brethren, by Chloe’s people, that there are quarrels among you. 12 Now I mean this, that each one of you is saying, “I am of Paul,” and “I of Apollos,” and “I of Cephas,” and “I of Christ.” 13 Has Christ been divided? Paul was not crucified for you, was he? Or were you baptized in the name of Paul?”

 

1.2.2.8.      We are exhorted throughout the New Testament to minister to one another in the body of Christ as any has need :

 

1.2.2.8.1.           The ministry of empathy :  Romans 12:15, “15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.”

 

1.2.2.8.2.           Bearing each other’s weaknesses and edifying one another:  Romans 15:1-2, “1 Now we who are strong ought to bear the weaknesses of those without strength and not just please ourselves. 2 Each of us is to please his neighbor for his good, to his edification.”.

 

1.2.2.8.3.           Helping out each other with material goods :  Romans 12:13, “13 contributing to the needs of the saints, practicing hospitality.”  2 Corinthians 8:4, “4 begging us with much urging for the favor of participation in the support of the saints.” 

 

1.2.2.8.4.           Exhorting and admonishing each other and performing the ministry of restoration : 

 

1.2.2.8.4.1.               Ephesians 4:15-16, “15 but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ, 16 from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.”   

 

1.2.2.8.4.2.               Galatians 6:1-2, “1Brethren, even if anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted. 2 Bear one another’s burdens, and thereby fulfill the law of Christ.”

 

1.2.2.9.      We are exhorted not to forsake the assembly of the saints when they meet in Hebrews 10:25, “25 not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near.”

 

1.2.3.  In this study we will see that Paul continues his exhortations of how we are to conduct ourselves in the body of Christ.

 

2.     VS 12:16  - 16 Be of the same mind toward one another; do not be haughty in mind, but associate with the lowly. Do not be wise in your own estimation. -  Paul tells us to be of the same mind towards one another and to associate with the lowly

 

2.1.                     In this verse, Paul writes that we are to have the same care and concern for each member of the body.  Each is equally loved and important in the eyes of God, and to each we must communicate and express the same love.

 

2.2.                     We Christians must not think that we are better, whether in character or material, than anyone else in the body of Christ, so Paul exhorts here to ‘not be haughty in mind.’

 

2.3.                     There is no one who is too ‘lowly’ in stature, character, or material in this world that we should not associate and fellowship with them if they are a brother or a sister in the Lord.  What Christians have in common is the Lord, and since He is the common denominator for all of us, Christians must treat each other with the same love and associate with each other as members of the same family.  In Christ, every person is a “blood-brother.”

 

2.4.                     Finally, Paul writes in this verse, ‘Do not be wise in your own estimation.’  This is a warning against conceit and false pride.  It is the second warning in this chapter to not think more highly of ourselves than we ought to think.

 

2.5.                     As I mentioned earlier in my analysis of this chapter, we as Christians must never fall into the trap of doing what James exhorts against, namely making distinctions amongst ourselves as to the relative worth of people within the body of Christ.  Each person is worth the same to God, and so He tells us to treat each one with the same amount of love, consideration, and preference.

 

2.6.                     Instead of simply obeying God’s commandments ourselves, we as Christians can sometimes simply sit back and judge others as to what they ought to or ought not to do.  However, God has not called us to be “judges,” but rather to serve Him and to be obedient ourselves to all that the Lord wants for us to do in our lives.

 

2.7.                     One translation renders part of this verse as, “Do not be wise in your own opinion.”  Opinions can be dangerous when people hold to them and place them above others.  All people have opinions, however we Christians must realize that our own opinions can be a source of very destructive pride in our lives if gone unchecked.  We should ask ourselves what we think of the opinions of others?

 

3.     VS 12:17  - 17 Never pay back evil for evil to anyone. Respect what is right in the sight of all men. -  Paul tells us to never pay back evil for evil and to respect those things that are right in the sight of all men

 

3.1.                     We as Christians are told by Paul in this verse that we must never let our behavior be such that we try to do back to others what they have done to us, if it be evil.  Because someone has harmed us in any way, we must never do anything which is calculated to harm them in any way.  Retaliation is always wrong for a Christian.

 

3.2.                     Secondly, Paul writes in this verse that Christians are to ‘respect what is right in the sight of all men.’

 

3.3.                     If Christians as well as non-Christians tend to have convictions in a certain area, then we are wise if try not to offend those convictions.   In the fist place, if even non-believers can see that something is ‘right’ and “good,” then how could we as Christians be so blind as to not see it?  It is a sad thing and a horrible testimony when Christians offend the consciences of the evil people of this world by their actions.

 

3.4.                     We Christians can never use evil for our purposes and be unscathed from evil ourselves.  We do not need to use Satan’s and the world’s methods of operation in order to do the works that the Lord wants for us to do.

 

4.     VS 12:18  - 18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men. -  Paul tells us to try to be at peace with all men as much as it is possible

 

4.1.                     Paul exhorts the Christians in this verse to try to live peaceably with ‘all men,’ that is as far as it is possible, or as long as doing so does not cause you to compromise your own conscience and in doing so commit sin before the Lord.

 

4.2.                     We Christians must realize that we cannot win people’s hearts to the Lord if we are at the same time angering them and rubbing them the wrong way.  Rather, it is better, as long as we do not compromise our consciences too much, for us to try to keep peace between ourselves and the people of this world.  Doing this it will be easier to win them for Christ.

 

4.3.                     The same principle ought to apply to us as Christians in our relationships with our brothers and sisters in Christ.  It is better if we can live at peace with them as well, that is, unless it becomes necessary for us to confront them in love because they are in sin, or,  we have something against them that needs to be discussed.

 

4.4.                     We Christians must realize that though there are essential truths that all Christians must agree upon in order to have salvation and be part of the body of Christ, we can agree to disagree upon every thing else and still have fellowship with each other as brothers and sisters in Christ.  The reality is that we may not be able to worship in the same church together with some because of our differences, yet we can still fellowship with brothers and sisters with whom we disagree about non-essential doctrinal truth outside of our church.

 

5.     VS 12:19  - 19 Never take your own revenge, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,”  says the Lord. -  Paul tells us to never take our own vengeance against anyone but to leave that to the Lord who promises to repay

 

5.1.                     In this verse, Paul writes that it is not for the Christian to take revenge against his enemies, but rather a Christian is to leave all revenge-taking to the Lord.  This is because the Lord has promised that He will repay according to their deeds those who insist upon remaining wicked, and revenge is prerogative as He alone can administer it justly.  In my life I have never seen revenge administered justly by anyone other than the Lord.

 

5.2.                     We Christians must do as Jesus taught us by example and teaching to love our enemies, pray for them, and bless them, and, leave any punishment of the wicked in this world system to the Lord alone.  

 

6.     VS 12:20  - 20 “But if your enemy is hungry, feed him, and if he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in so doing you will heap burning coals upon his head.” -  Paul tells us that if our enemy is hungry or thirsty that we are to feed him or give him drink and that in doing so we will be heaping burning coals upon his head

 

6.1.                     Paul tells us as Christians that we are to do kind things for our enemies.  We are even to give them a friendly offer to help them when they have needs.

 

6.2.                     Paul writes that if a Christian does kind and helpful things for one who is his enemy, that he will be heaping ‘burning coals upon his head.’  There has been much speculation as to what this may mean.  Probably the greatest number of commentators believe that the heaping of burning coals upon the head of one’s enemy by acts of kindness refers to the guilt and shame that the Christian’s enemy feels when the Christian does kind things.  However, this phrase may refer to the practice of lending coals from a fire to help a neighbor start their own fire - and act of kindness to be appreciated.  The people in that day carried coals for a fire in a fire pan on their heads.

 

6.3.                     We Christians need to take it to heart that the best way to destroy our enemies is to make them our friends!

 

7.     VS 12:21  - 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. -  Paul tells us to not be overcome by evil but to rather to overcome it by doing good

 

7.1.                     There are many in the church who have taught that the Christian life is primarily about warfare and that the Christian is to overcome evil by using force.  The Moral Majority has taken this sort of stance and called for a sort of militant approach to evil in our world via protest and standing up for our rights.  Pentecostals have sometimes gone about trying to rebuke the Devil whom they believe is hiding under every rock.  However, there is another approach, one that is Biblical.  Paul tells us to ‘overcome evil with good.’  This is what Jesus did upon Calvary’s cross, is it not?  He didn’t fight back, hurl insults back, spit back, etc.  Instead, He laid down His life for the wicked of this world and in so doing He won salvation for all who will accept Him and the work He performed for them upon the cross.

 

7.2.                     We Christians are called to be salt and light in this world, and to overcome the evil that is in the world by our doing of what is right and good in God’s sight.  Jesus taught us to do this in Matthew 5:16, “16 Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.”  St. Francis of Assisi once said, “Preach the Gospel at all times and when necessary use words.

 

8.     CONCLUSIONS :

 

8.1.                     Again, lets again be committed to doing those things that make for the building up of the body of Christ in love and avoid those things that tear down the body of Christ.

 

8.2.                     Lets work on being in unity with our brothers and sisters in Christ as far as much as we can be without committing sin.

 

8.3.                     Lets walk in God’s agape love.

 

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