Luke 18:1-17:  The Importunate Widow / A Pharisee And A Tax Gatherer Pray At Temple / People Bring Their Children To Jesus

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Jim Bomkamp

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1.     INTRO:

 

1.1.                     In our last study, we looked at verses 20-37 of chapter 17.

 

1.1.1.  Jesus responded to the question asked of Him of when God’s kingdom would come. 

 

1.1.2.  Jesus told His disciples about the fact that one day they would find themselves longing for His return, and then He began to teach them about the events of His Second Advent (Second Coming).

 

1.2.                     In our study today, we are going to look at verses 1-17 of chapter 18.

 

1.2.1.  We will see that Jesus teaches about the importance of persevering in prayer as He teaches the parable of the Importunate Widow And The Unrighteous Judge.

 

1.2.2.  Jesus will teach about a Pharisee and a tax gatherer who both went up to the temple to pray, however it was the tax gatherer’s prayer that was heard and who had his sins pardoned for he was humble and contrite in heart and seeking God’s mercy.

 

1.2.3.  Jesus’ disciples are rebuked by Him for disallowing some people from bringing their children to Him.

 

2.     VS 18:1-8  - 1 Now He was telling them a parable to show that at all times they ought to pray and not to lose heart, 2 saying, “In a certain city there was a judge who did not fear God and did not respect man. 3 “There was a widow in that city, and she kept coming to him, saying, ‘Give me legal protection from my opponent.’ 4 “For a while he was unwilling; but afterward he said to himself, ‘Even though I do not fear God nor respect man, 5 yet because this widow bothers me, I will give her legal protection, otherwise by continually coming she will wear me out.’ ” 6 And the Lord said, “Hear what the unrighteous judge said; 7 now, will not God bring about justice for His elect who cry to Him day and night, and will He delay long over them? 8 “I tell you that He will bring about justice for them quickly. However, when the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?” -  Jesus tells His disciples a parable about a widow who kept coming to a judge to persuade him to give her legal protection from her opponent and the judge was finally moved to help her out because of her continually coming to him

 

2.1.                     In a style unusual to him, Luke introduces this parable by telling what it was meant to communicate, namely that Jesus’ disciples ought ‘at all times to pray and not to lose heart.’

 

2.2.                     We Christians need to understand how that prayer is meant to occupy such a central and vital part of our lives in this world.  Those who know Christ are always those who also must grow in their understanding and practice of praying for their own needs as well as the needs of others.

 

2.3.                     In this parable, we first of all see that there was a ‘a judge.’  He was a worldly man and is referred to by Jesus as being an ‘unrighteous judge.’  He was a man who did ‘not fear God’ and who also did not ‘respect man.’  This judge was probably a worldly Israelite living in Israel and taking for granted the fact that he had a judicial appointment in which he was supposed to defend and protect God’s people as a representative of God. 

 

2.4.                     Secondly, we see that there was ‘a widow’ who was in a quandary because of the fact that someone was taking advantage of her.  Perhaps a man in town who realized that this woman having no husband was vulnerable was trying to take away her property.  This widow desperately needed this judge to act justly on her behalf concerning her adversary. 

 

2.5.                     There are many passages in the scriptures that teach that it is the responsibility of God’s leaders to defend and protect widows, orphans, and all of those who are helpless and vulnerable, including:

 

2.5.1.      Deuteronomy 27:19, “19 Cursed is he who distorts the justice due an alien, orphan, and widow.’ And all the people shall say, ‘Amen.’” 

 

2.5.2.  Isaiah 1:17, “17 Learn to do good; Seek justice, Reprove the ruthless, Defend the orphan, Plead for the widow.” 

 

2.5.3.  Isaiah 1:21-23, “21 How the faithful city has become a harlot, She who was full of justice! Righteousness once lodged in her, But now murderers. 22 Your silver has become dross, Your drink diluted with water. 23 Your rulers are rebels And companions of thieves; Everyone loves a bribe And chases after rewards. They do not defend the orphan, Nor does the widow’s plea come before them.” 

 

2.5.4.  James 1:27, “27 Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world.”

 

2.6.                     This widow has been called the “importunate widow” and Miriam Webster’s Dictionary has the following entry for this word “importunate” :

 

im•por•tu•nate \im-ˈpȯr-chə-nət, -tyu̇-nət\ adjective (1529)

1 : troublesomely urgent : overly persistent in request or demand

2 : troublesome

2.7.                     As an example of how we ought to pray, this woman was “importunate” in her coming to this judge and Easton’s Bible Dictionary says the following about acceptable prayer, “Acceptable prayer must be sincere (Heb. 10:22), offered with reverence and godly fear, with a humble sense of our own insignificance as creatures and of our own unworthiness as sinners, with earnest importunity, and with unhesitating submission to the divine will. Prayer must also be offered in the faith that God is, and is the hearer and answerer of prayer, and that he will fulfill his word, “Ask, and ye shall receive” (Matt. 7:7, 8; 21:22; Mark 11:24; John 14:13, 14), and in the name of Christ (16:23, 24; 15:16; Eph. 2:18; 5:20; Col. 3:17; 1 Pet. 2:5).

 

2.8.                     Jesus’ argument is yet another one that He makes going from the lesser to the greater.  He is saying that if a man who is an unrighteous judge on this earth will finally give in and grant a woman’s request because she is continually coming to him and driving him crazy, how much more shall our heavenly father who loves us so greatly as His children grant the requests that we bring to Him.

 

2.9.                     Notice here as well that Jesus refers to God’s people as being His elect.’  The doctrine of ‘election’ is a very important doctrine.  Before all eternity, those who will be God’s people in this life were “chosen” or “elected” to come to salvation.  The Lord not only knew who would come to salvation (foreknowledge) because He knows the end from the beginning in all things, He also chose those who would choose Him to be their Lord and their God.  Being God’s elect, each of us have direct access to the Lord and it is expected and required that we be people who come before the Lord with prayers and petitions for our needs and the needs of the world around us.

 

2.9.1.  Being ‘elect’ does not indicate that we deserve God’s favor, for the in Romans it tells us that “none are righteous, no not one.”

 

2.9.2.  Isn’t it a wonderful thing for us as Christians to know that because we are God’s elect that He has His eye and hand specially on our lives and that He is eager to answer us and pour out His mercy and grace into our lives whenever we come to His throne of Grace.   Hebrews 4:16 tells us that we Christians have assurance of being received whenever we come before God’s throne of grace, ”16 Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”

 

2.10.                It is important also that we recognize the context within which this passage and teaching of Jesus falls.  Jesus has just prior to this been teaching His disciples about His Second Coming, and this teaching comes out of that teaching.  The thing we need to realize is that Jesus is saying that during this time while we are awaiting His Second Coming that we need to come to the Lord and pray for His vindication and justice to be carried out on our behalf when people have taken advantage of us.  This vindication and justice that we request on our behalf will in time be carried out by the Lord when He returns to the earth and executes justice in establishing His Millennial Reign.

 

2.11.                Jesus is not teaching here that God has to have His arm twisted behind His back in order for Him to answer our prayers and therefore that we need to pray them repeatedly in order to talk Him into answering them.  I believe that the scripture is clear that we only have to pray for something once and that the Lord will answer our prayer if it is prayed in faith and according to His will.  I believe that the point of this teaching then is that we should never stop praying and stop interceding for people in this world.  God will answer our prayers in His timing and according to His will. 

 

2.11.1.                     Have you ever prayed about something and then forgot that you had prayed and then when the Lord answered your prayer you forgot for awhile that you had prayed for this.  We have all done this.  Sometimes we need to remind the Lord as well as ourselves of the things that we are trusting Him to answer.

 

2.11.2.                     Prayer is to be specific.  Sometimes when we are praying for someone to say come to salvation we pray these general prayers for them and eventually begin to lose heart in our prayers because we are praying so generally and seeing no results.  A key to persevering in prayer for people is to remember to pray very specifically for things, not in a general sense.  This is how the Lord wants us to pray.

 

2.11.3.                     Never pray those big all encompassing prayers for they are a waste of time.  For instance, sometimes I will hear someone pray something like, “Lord, I pray that everyone will hear your voice and be saved.”  The Lord isn’t going to answer this kind of prayer.  First of all, the scripture tells us that many will not be saved.  Secondly, we don’t have the faith to truly trust the Lord for such a huge prayer.  Pray smaller but very specific prayers for people, and always try to pray for God’s perfect will to be accomplished in them.

 

2.11.4.                     It is important also to remember that effective prayer is God centered and exalts the Lord.  Many times people come to God and ask for things in a rude sort of way, not acknowledging Him in His greatness and majesty, and with a reverent and loving heart.  True prayer ought to have more to do with seeking that the Lord be lifted up and glorified than about obtaining any results from Him.  Any parent is frustrated by the request of a child that does not acknowledge him/her and only comes around when they want something.  That “Give me, give me, give me” attitude is something that we are repulsed by as parents and which we try to break from our children’s lives.  It must be the same with our heavenly Father and us.

 

2.11.5.                     The following poem by an unknown author speaks of how much we need to be diligent to pray every day and in all that we do:

INTO THE DAY

I got up early one morning

And rushed right into the day;

I had so much to accomplish

I didn’t have time to pray.

Troubles just tumbled about me

And heavier came each task.

Why doesn’t God help me, I wondered,

He answered, “You didn’t ask.”

I tried to come into God’s presence,

I used all my keys at the lock.

God gently and lovingly chided,

“Why child, you didn’t knock.”

I wanted to see joy and beauty,

But the day toiled on grey and bleak,

I called on the Lord for the reason—

He said “You didn’t seek.”

I woke up early this morning

And paused before entering the day.

I had so much to accomplish

That I had to take time to pray.

 

2.12.                I found another inspiring quote about prayer from Paul Lee Tan :

David Brainerd was a man of great spiritual power. The work which he accomplished by prayer was simply marvelous. Dr. A. J. Gordon, in giving a sketch of Brainerd’s experience, said,

“In the depths of those forests, alone, unable to speak the language of the Indians, he spent whole days literally in prayer. What was he praying for? He knew that he could not reach those savages; he did not understand their language. If he wanted to speak at all, he must find somebody who could vaguely interpret his thought; therefore he knew that anything he should do must be absolutely dependent upon the power of God.

“So he spent whole days in prayer, simply that the power of the Holy Ghost might come upon him so unmistakably that these people should not be able to stand before him. What was his answer? Once he preached and the interpreter was so intoxicated that he could hardly stand up. That was the best he could do. Yet scores were converted through that sermon. We can account for it only by the tremendous power of God behind him.

 

2.13.                The Christian Observer once published this article:

One Sunday night in April 1912, an American woman was very weary, yet could not sleep because of an oppression of fear.  At last she felt a burden of prayer, and with tremendous earnestness began to pray for her husband then in mid-Atlantic, homeward-bound on the Titanic.  As the hours went by she could get no assurance, and kept on praying in an agony, until about five o’clock in the morning when a great peace possessed her, and she slept.

Meanwhile her husband, Colonel Gracie, was among the doomed hundreds who were trying frantically to launch the lifeboats from the great ship whose vitals had been torn out by an iceberg.  He had given up all hope of being saved himself, and was doing his best to help the women and children.  He wished that he could get a last message through to his wife, and cried from his heart, “Good-by, my darling.”  Then as the ship plunged to her watery grave, he was sucked down in the giant whirlpool.  Instinctively he began to swim under water, ice-cold as it was, crying in his heart.

Suddenly he came to the surface and found himself near an overturned lifeboat.  Along with several others he climbed aboard, and was picked up by another lifeboat, about five in the morning, the very time that peace came to his praying wife!  Supplication!  The prayer that will not take No for an answer, that storms the battlements of Heaven, and brings confusion and defeat to all the powers of hell, even death itself!

 

2.14.                Notice here that Jesus intimates that when He returns that it will be a time of apostasy with not many who are saved as He asks, when the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?’

 

3.     VS 18:9-14  - 9 And He also told this parable to some people who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and viewed others with contempt: 10 “Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 “The Pharisee stood and was praying this to himself: ‘God, I thank You that I am not like other people: swindlers, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. 12 ‘I fast twice a week; I pay tithes of all that I get.’ 13 “But the tax collector, standing some distance away, was even unwilling to lift up his eyes to heaven, but was beating his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, the sinner!’ 14 “I tell you, this man went to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted.” -  Jesus tells His disciples a parable about two men who went up to the temple to pray, a Pharisee and a tax gatherer, one’s prayer was accepted and the other’s was not

 

3.1.                     In this parable, we see both a good and a bad example of how to approach God in prayer.  One man’s prayer is an abomination to God and the other man leaves having obtained pardon and forgiveness for his sin.

 

3.2.                     The irony of the two men chosen is clear.  Pharisees were the religious fundamentalists and leaders in Jesus day, however the Pharisee in this story is the man whose prayer is an abomination to the Lord.  Tax gatherers were the most hated of all men, and it has been said that because of fear for their own safety that not many tax gatherers would even venture to the temple to pray.  However, it was the tax gatherer whose prayer was accepted by the Lord and his sin pardoned.

 

3.3.                     The Pharisee’s prayer:

 

3.3.1.  The Pharisee stood and was praying to himself, however his prayer consisted of thanking God that he wasn’t like other sinful people, and then he began commending himself to the Lord for his deeds, however his righteousness was all on the external.  The Lord only required fasting once a year on the Day of Atonement, however this man was proud of himself that he fasted twice a week.  This man also paid more in tithes than the law required and he thought that God was impressed.

 

3.3.2.  The Pharisee did not sense his need nor his unworthiness before the Lord.  He saw other’s sins but not His own, plus he felt that he had somehow earned God’s favor and was therefore deserving to have the Lord answer his prayer.  He had no humility and did not see himself in need of God’s mercy or grace.

 

3.3.3.  The Pharisees prayer was self-centered not God centered.  He does not thank or praise God nor exalt the Lord’s Name in any way in his prayer.

 

3.3.4.  The Pharisee does not even pray for anything, and true effective prayer moves to a request.

 

3.3.5.  The Pharisee was judgmental towards others condemning them without even knowing what was truly in their hearts.

 

3.3.6.  The Pharisees prayer was not favorably received or answered by God because his heart was in the wrong place.  His prayer was an abomination.

 

3.4.                     The tax gatherer’s prayer:

 

3.4.1.  The tax gatherer sensed his own unworthiness to such a degree that he stood some distance away from the assembly at the temple, perhaps in the Court of the Gentiles.

 

3.4.2.  The tax gatherer was so aware of his sinfulness that he was beating his breast and asking God in His mercy to forgive him of his many sins.

 

3.4.3.  This man’s prayer was not self centered it was God centered for he was crying out to the Lord for mercy.  His heart was humble before the Lord and his prayer earnest for God to answer him and show him mercy.

 

3.4.4.  The tax gatherer went home having had his prayer favorably received by the Lord and his sins forgiven and atoned for.

 

3.5.                       Jesus comments upon why the one man’s prayer was rejected and the other man’s accepted saying, ‘everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted.’  Psalm 34:18 likewise tells us, “18 The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.”

 

3.5.1.  We Christians need to recognize that what more than anything else that we need to do when we go to the Lord in prayer is to always ask for His mercy in our lives.  We don’t want to ask for justice in regards to ourselves but rather mercy because we have all sinned and fallen short of God’s glory (Rom. 3:23), and therefore if we do not receive God’s mercy we are destined to receive His judgment and wrath. 

 

4.     VS 18:15-17  - 15 And they were bringing even their babies to Him so that He would touch them, but when the disciples saw it, they began rebuking them. 16 But Jesus called for them, saying, “Permit the children to come to Me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. 17 “Truly I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.”” -  Jesus rebukes His disciples for not allowing people to bring their children to Him

 

4.1.                     In this incident that is recorded for us we see that people were bringing their young children (the text states they were “infants”) to Jesus so that they might receive some kind of a blessing by Him or from Him, however Jesus’ disciples saw the people trying to do this and they were rebuking the people and not permitting them to bring their children to Jesus.  However, when Jesus noticed His disciples doing this He rebuked them telling them, ‘Permit the children to come to Me.’

 

4.2.                     It must have been a beautiful sight to see the Lord (He who is God of the universe) having little kids crawl all over Him.  It is wonderful to realize that with all of Jesus’ spirituality and holiness that He was also a man who was comfortable holding and playing with young children, and that they were also drawn to Him.  If we ever become so spiritual that we aren’t approachable we are in trouble for Jesus was approachable.

 

4.3.                     At this point in time this story reveals to us that Jesus’ disciples were managing His affairs and to some extent controlling the things that were happening around Him, and they thought that it would be a waste of Jesus’ time to have children brought to Him (probably the gist of their rebuke).  However, Jesus’ response reveals that all people are welcome to Him.

 

4.4.                     J.C. Ryle has written the following concerning how churches have dealt with children, “On few subjects, perhaps, shall we find such strange opinions in the churches, as on the subject of the souls of children.  Some think that children ought to be baptized, as a matter of course, and that if they die unbaptized they cannot be saved.  Others think that children ought not to be baptized, but can give no satisfactory reason why they think so.---Some think that all children are regenerate by virtue of their baptism.  Others seem to think that children are incapable of receiving any grace, and that they ought not to be enrolled in the Church until they are grown up.---Some think that children are naturally innocent, and would do no wickedness unless they learned it from others.  Others think that it is no use to expect them to be converted when young, and that they must be treated as unbelievers till they come to years of discretion.---all these opinions appear to be errors, in one direction or another.”

 

4.5.                     Many believe because of this passage that if a child dies before reaching some kind of an “age of accountability” that they will go to be with the Lord in heaven, and though the scripture is not completely clear to affirm or deny this truth it does seem reasonable to assume that Christ’s atonement will cover a child who dies before some age of accountability.  If this is the case, then there will probably be more children in heaven than adults.

 

4.6.                     In the New Testament, we never see anyone being baptized other than a person who has come to have saving faith in Christ.  Therefore, we in the Calvary Chapels do not baptize children until they have prayed the sinners prayer and asked Christ to come into their hearts as Lord and Savior.  There is no age limit on how old a child must be to come to have genuine saving faith in Christ, and thus any children who have asked Christ into their life are welcome to be baptized in the church.  We also believe that baptism is not the means nor essential to have eternal salvation in Christ, but rather that it is meant to be an outward symbol of an internal act having already occured.  Per Romans chapter 11, we believe that in baptism the person goes under the water which symbolizes that now that they have come to salvation that they have died with Christ to sin, and they are raised up out of the water which symbolizes that they have now been raised up to walk in the newness of life in Christ Jesus.

 

4.7.                     Jesus makes the point here that everyone who receives His kingdom must receive it like a child.  When a person comes to Christ he is to come with a childlike faith and trust in the Lord and His word.  Likewise, children are also not good at deception and in this same way God’s children are to be transparent and honest, and not hypocritical or secretive.

 

5.     CONCLUSIONS:

 

5.1.                     As we consider this teaching and how we need to apply it to our lives, lets first of all commit ourselves to persevering in prayer.  Continue to pray specifically for our own needs as well as the needs of others.  As His elect, lets trust in the Lord that in due time He shall answer our prayers and deliver us.

 

5.2.                     Lets be committed to coming to the Lord with a humble broken heart and a contrite spirit asking for the Lord’s mercy and grace.  Lets come to Him with a great sense of our need for Him as well as a great earnestness that He hear our prayer and answer us.

 

5.3.                     Lets be committed to always having a childlike faith and innocence concerning wrong.  Lets be transparent not secretive, deceptive, and hypocritical.

 

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