John 15:12-17: “Jesus Tells His Disciples That There Is No Greater Love Than One Lay Down His Life For His Friends

By

Jim Bomkamp

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1.                  INTRO:

 

1.1.         In our last study we looked at verses 1-11 of chapter 15.

 

1.1.1.  Jesus told His disciples that He is the vine and they are the branches, and that by being a branch they are to go forth and bear fruit for Him.  We will look at what “fruit” refers to in this context.

 

1.1.2.  Jesus told His disciples that the one who abides in Him will bear “much fruit” and that apart from Him they can do nothing.

 

1.1.3.  Jesus gave His disciples a warning that if they do not bear fruit that they will be taken out as a branch and thrown into the fire and burned for fruit bearing is not an option for a Christian.

 

1.2.         In our study today, we are going to look at verses 12-17 of chapter 15.

 

1.2.1.  In this study, Jesus will begin to tell His disciples to love one another in the same manner that He has loved them, i.e. to be willing to lay down their lives for the brethren just as He was soon to lay His life down for them.

 

1.2.2.  Since the events of this story occurred prior to Jesus going to the cross and that supreme sacrifice which defined what true love is, I wonder what was going through the disciples minds as they heard Him speak these things to them.  Certainly, after the events of the cross the disciples began to realize what great love had led their Lord to willingly pay the debt of their sins which each owed.

 

1.2.3.  I thought that because it is hard for us to conceive how great of a sacrifice that Jesus Christ made for each one of us upon Calvary’s cross that I would look for some examples of people in this world who had laid their lives down for others :

 

1.2.3.1.On a blog web site I found a testimony about a teacher at Virginia Tech who had laid his life down for others during that horrible mass muder that occurred at the college a couple of weeks ago :

 

Out of many tragedies come instances of heroism and sacrifice, and the carnage at Virginia Tech had one such example, all the more poignant because of the man’s personal history.

As Cho Seung-Hui made his way through Norris Hall, shooting anyone he came in contact with, he came to the classroom of Liviu Librescu, a 76 year old Holocaust survivor, who was a lecturer in engineering and mechanics. Professor Librescu threw himself in front of the door to the classroom, while his students escaped out the windows. Though he was shot to death through the door he blocked, all of his students escaped and lived because of his sacrifice.

During our Lenten meditation, we talked about Godly love (agape/αγαπη), which is the form of love driven by choices, not emotions. Jesus, the Son, chose to make the sacrifice he made upon the cross. Likewise, professor Librescu chose to make his sacrifice, stepping into harms way, giving his life that his students might live. It was a transcendent moment, one in which the essence of a life is summed up, weighed in the balance and passes the final test.

 

1.2.3.2.I found another example of someone laying their life down for another on the blog web site of a guy named David Anderson :

 

On Friday, September 29, a Navy SEAL exemplified Jesus' famous statement about love. "Greater love has no man than this, that he should lay down his life for a friend". Petty Officer 2nd Class Michael Monsoor was a quiet, unassuming, and fun-loving guy who wore a mischievous grin and always had a funny comment. The members of his Special Forces team described him as a loyal and dependable friend who drew strength from his faith and family.

In May, his heroism under fire saved a wounded soldier and earned him the Silver Star. Just four months later, he would be tested again as he stood near a rooftop door in Ramadi, just west of Baghdad. A grenade tossed by an Iraqi insurgent hit him in the chest and bounced to the floor. Without hesitation, Michael jumped on top of the grenade to shield his fellow SEALs. The lieutenant in charge of the detail said this of Michael, "He never even took his eye off the grenade. His only movement was down toward it. He saved mine and the other SEALs' lives, and we owe him." At the age of 25, Michael Monsoor went to meet His Lord, but left behind four grateful families and a legacy of love.

It has been said that courage is not the absence of fear, but the strength to do right in the face of fear. From where does that kind of strength come? In the case of a Navy SEAL, it has a lot to do with discipline and training. There are only 2,300 SEALs. More than 75% of the brave soldiers who qualify drop out during "Hell Week", the intense five-day training in which they are allowed a total of four hours of sleep. Michael was strong, he was disciplined, he was well trained, but it was love that prompted him to give his life to save others. The training in California and the battles in Iraq bonded Michael to these men with a love that can only be forged under fire. It is the hallmark of all our special forces - an immediate and undying devotion to one another.

Love is the also the hallmark of the church. Jesus said, "By this shall all men know that you are my disciples, if you have love one for another."

 

1.2.3.3.A friend sent me a link to a web site this week that was designed to encourage people to support our troops overseas in places like Afghanistan and Iraq and to be there for them and their families when they return.  Three quarters of the way through the PowerPoint video presentation they showed pictures taken at the funerals of young men and women who have given their lives for our freedom as Americans in these two wars.  This was very hard for me to watch.  We in the church need to pray often for our troops abroad who are putting their lives on the line for us.  The same can be said about policemen, fire fighters, doctors and nurses, etc. in our country.

 

1.2.4.  As I searched on the internet for examples of people in this world who had laid their lives down for others every single source I found mentioned the sacrifice of Jesus in the story as if Jesus’ sacrifice was the inspiration or example that the person had followed who laid down his life for others.  And, as great as the sacrifices that many have made for others, such as those who the men and women in the military have made for us, there is something unique and greater about the sacrifice that Jesus Christ made upon Calvary’s cross for each of us in the human race.  The sacrifice that Jesus Christ made for us was a sacrifice that was made for sinful men and women who were deserving of their punishment, people who were not desirable, lovely, or loveable and in fact who despised and persecuted the one make the sacrifice, people who could not repay in any substantial way that sacrifice, as Romans 5:6-8 tells us, “6 For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. 7 For one will hardly die for a righteous man; though perhaps for the good man someone would dare even to die. 8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”

 

1.2.5.  Concerning Rom. 5:8 and the way in which Jesus Christ commended His love towards us, Matthew Henry wrote the following in his Bible commentary :

 

He died for the ungodly; not only helpless creatures, and therefore likely to perish, but guilty sinful creatures, and therefore deserving to perish; not only mean and worthless, but vile and obnoxious, unworthy of such favour with the holy God. Being ungodly, they had need of one to die for them, to satisfy for guilt, and to bring in a righteousness. This he illustrates (v. 7, 8) as an unparalleled instance of love; herein God’s thoughts and ways were above ours. Compare Jn. 15:13, 14, Greater love has no man. (1.) One would hardly die for a righteous man, that is, an innocent man, one that is unjustly condemned; every body will pity such a one, but few will put such a value upon his life as either to hazard, or much less to deposit, their own in his stead. (2.) It may be, one might perhaps be persuaded to die for a good man, that is, a useful man, who is more than barely a righteous man. Many that are good themselves yet do but little good to others; but those that are useful commonly get themselves well beloved, and meet with some that in a case of necessity would venture to be their antipsychoiwould engage life for life, would be their bail, body for body. Paul was, in this sense, a very good man, one that was very useful, and he met with some that for his life laid down their own necks, ch. 16:4. And yet observe how he qualifies this: it is but some that would do so, and it is a daring act if they do it, it must be some bold venturing soul; and, after all, it is but a peradventure. (3.) But Christ died for sinners (v. 8), neither righteous nor good; not only such as were useless, but such as were guilty and obnoxious; not only such as there would be no loss of should they perish, but such whose destruction would greatly redound to the glory of God’s justice, being malefactors and criminals that ought to die. Some think he alludes to a common distinction the Jews had of their people into ndyqymrighteous, hsdymmerciful (compare Isa. 17:1), and rssymwicked. Now herein God commended his love, not only proved or evidenced his love (he might have done that at a cheaper rate), but magnified it and made it illustrious. This circumstance did greatly magnify and advance his love, not only put it past dispute, but rendered it the object of the greatest wonder and admiration: "Now my creatures shall see that I love them, I will give them such an instance of it as shall be without parallel.’’ Commendeth his love, as merchants commend their goods when they would put them off. This commending of his love was in order to the shedding abroad of his love in our hearts by the Holy Ghost. He evinces his love in the most winning, affecting, endearing way imaginable.

 

1.2.6.  Knowing that He is soon to leave this earth via the cross, Jesus in His preparing of His disciples for the work they were being called to after His death and resurrection repeats to them yet again in our study that His disciples are to learn to love one another with that same great love that He had and would soon demonstrate to the them. 

 

2.                 VS 15:12  - ‘This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you.  Greater love has no one than this that one lay down his life for his friends’. -  Jesus tells His disciples that it is His commandment that they love one another just as He has loved them, and that no man has greater love than that he lay down his life for his friends

 

2.1.         Jesus repeats His Commandment to them which He emphasized on several occasions, “love one another,” however this time He tells them to love one another, “just as I have loved you.”  I think that this phrasing emphasizes that the disciples’ love for each other should be of the same intensity and constancy as His love to each of them.  Jesus loved each of His disciples fervently and without ceasing.  When Jesus goes to the cross and raises from the dead His disciples will begin to understand just how much He has loved them.

 

2.2.         Jesus then proceeds to tell His disciples that no one has a greater love than one who lays down his own life for his friends.  Jesus does not say in this that His life was given only for those whom God considers the “friends of Jesus.  Rather, Jesus is emphasizing the greatness of the love in a person that is willing to lay down his life for another.  The fact of the matter is that Jesus died for all people so that as we saw in John 3:16 that, “whosoever believes in Him may not perish but have everlasting life.” 

 

2.3.         We saw already that Paul wrote in Rom. 5:6-8 of the incredible love of Jesus that caused Him to die for us even though we were in sin and the greatest rebellion. 

 

2.4.         Jesus does allude in verse 13 that He considered His disciples to be His friends!  Abraham alone in the Old Testament is called “the friend of God,” however Paul tells us in Rom. 4:11 that Abraham is the “father of those who believe” in Jesus Christ for salvation.  We are all God’s friends through our faith in Christ.

 

2.5.         Jesus tells us in these verses that He would have each of us Christians to have the same degree and type of agape love towards each other that He had for us.  To the extent that Christ has loved me, I should also love my brothers and my sisters in Christ.  This is Christ’s commandment to me!

 

2.6.         There are a number of verses in the New Testament that seek to impress upon us the fact that our motivation for the things we do in this life ought to be stirred by a consideration of who Christ is and what He really did for us in coming to earth to die a horrible and shameful death upon the cross of Calvary, including :

 

2.6.1.  Matthew 20:28, “28 just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”” 

 

2.6.2.  1 Peter 1:15-22, “15 but like the Holy One who called you, be holy yourselves also in all your behavior; 16 because it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.” 17 If you address as Father the One who impartially judges according to each one’s work, conduct yourselves in fear during the time of your stay on earth; 18 knowing that you were not redeemed with perishable things like silver or gold from your futile way of life inherited from your forefathers, 19 but with precious blood, as of a lamb unblemished and spotless, the blood of Christ. 20 For He was foreknown before the foundation of the world, but has appeared in these last times for the sake of you 21 who through Him are believers in God, who raised Him from the dead and gave Him glory, so that your faith and hope are in God. 22 Since you have in obedience to the truth purified your souls for a sincere love of the brethren, fervently love one another from the heart.”

 

2.7.         We Christians ought to have the same great love that Christ had for us and be willing to lay down our lives by living and preaching the gospel to all of the unsaved people God brings into our lives.  We ought to be willing to lay down our lives for the sacrifice and service of the saints because of the way in which Christ has laid down His life for us.

 

3.                 VS 15:14  - ‘You are My friends, if you do what I command you’. -  Jesus tells His disciples that they are His friends if they do what He has commanded them

 

3.1.         Jesus tells His disciples that friendship with Him (and with God) is attainable but only to those who are willing to give their will to God to do His will.  This does not mean that a disciple must be perfect in order to be a friend of God, rather it just means that he must be willing to let Christ have full control over his life. 

 

3.2.         There will always be times in a disciple’s life when he takes back control of his life, however there is no option for one of Jesus’ disciples, for all of them must yield up his/her life to Jesus.

 

3.3.         As was mentioned, we Christians, those who have yielded our will to Christ as Lord and Savior, ought to keep it firmly in mind that in God’s view we are considered not only His servants, but much more, His personal friends.  This happens at our new birth, and our status as a “friend of God” never changes from that point on.

 

4.                 VS 15:15  - ‘No longer do I call you slaves, for the slave does not know what his master is doing;  but I have called you friends, for all things that I have heard from My Father I have made known to you’. -  Jesus told His disciples that He no longer calls them slaves because slaves do not know what their master is doing, but rather He calls them friends because all of the things He has heard from the Father He has made known to them

 

4.1.         Jesus emphasizes to His disciples the fact that He no longer considers them His disciples.  And the reason that they can be sure that this is true is because He promised that He revealed to them every word which He had heard from the Father to them.

 

4.2.         God, who calls us Christians His friends, has revealed to us everything that is helpful or needful in our life through His word.  We need to apprehend what He has made available to us, which is all that we need in order to live abundant fruitful lives for Him.  We ought to be in His word daily so that we can know the precious promises made to us.

 

5.                 VS 15:16  - ‘You did not choose Me, but I chose you, and appointed you, that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should remain, that whatever you ask of the Father in My name, He may give to you’. -  Jesus tells His disciples that they did not choose Him but rather He chose them, and chose them that they might go forth and bear fruit n His Name

 

5.1.         Jesus begins to tell His disciples of His choice and appointment of them for His service, a service that involves His plan for the evangelization of the world.  He tells His disciples in this verse that He has chosen and appointed them to go and bear fruit.  This calling and appointment that the Lord has for our lives is that of being an ambassador for Christ, representing Him, and doing His bidding in all that we do in life.

 

5.2.         Further, Jesus tells His disciples that it is His desire that the fruit that they bear should not be transitory and disappear, but rather that the fruit ‘should remain’ on and continue to give glory to God.  Not only does Jesus desire that the disciples go and win souls to Him, He desires that the ones who are won to Him should be discipled and then go and bear fruit themselves.

 

5.3.         What good does it do to bear fruit to the Lord that does not remain?  There is a lot of ministry for the Lord today that “does not remain.”  This fact definitely deserves some consideration by us in the church because the Lord desires us as Christians to produce fruit for Him that remains.  In 1993 in Helena, MT we had Franklin Graham come and do an evangelistic crusade in the city, with most churches participated in that event, and if memory serves me right about 1,300 people during that week made commitments to Christ for salvation.  However, in a couple of months I couldn’t account for a single soul in any church because of that crusade.  There was fruit but it didn’t remain.  This is typical of evangelistic events that are held in our country in this day.  The percentage of those who continue on in their faith is very low.  But, the Lord says that it is His desire that we bear fruit that would ‘remain.’

 

5.4.         Interestingly, Jesus tell His disciples next that the means by which that fruit should be born and remain shall be “prayer.”  He tells them they may ask the Father to do any great or small thing in His name, and that the Father will grant their request to them.  If Jesus connects “prayer” with bearing fruit that will remain that is probably the place that we need to begin in order to see fruit that remains.  We need to pray for the fruit that God can produce through us that would ‘remain.’

 

5.5.         This verse is predicated by what Jesus said earlier in this chapter that if His disciples continued to abide in Him and His word that whatever they asked would be granted to them, for thus they would be asking according to God’s will.

 

5.6.         So, as we Christians go and bear fruit to God, we must be cautious to bear the kind of fruit that will “remain.”  We must be focused and persistent in our ministries so that we are sure to hit the mark that God desires.  We must be committed not only to witness for Jesus, but to try to make every effort to get those we witness to into God’s kingdom.  Then, once they are in the kingdom, we have a further responsibility to see that each one is discipled into maturity so that they in turn may bear fruit for God and our ministry actual multiply in its fruitfulness.  What kind of a parent gives birth to children and then abandons them.  We Christians need to build friendships with those we share with so that through the bridge of friendship we can get them into the church so that they can be discipled and this be the kind of fruit that remains.

 

5.7.         All of us Christians have an appointment by God to go into this world and bear fruit.  God is sovereign, and this is His plan for each of us.  We have not been placed here on earth to pursue worldly or selfish ambitions, rather we have a calling, namely to go and bear as much fruit unto God as He chooses to produce in our life.  Each of us as Christians must commit ourselves to fulfilling the Great Commission, for this must be our single-minded goal in our life.  There is no other purpose for our life after we have received Christ but to go and bear fruit to the glory of God.

 

5.8.         How much of your life have you wasted by pursuits that weren’t part of God’s plan and calling for your life?  We Christians need to get serious and focused and get about God’s business, as His appointed ambassadors!

 

6.                 VS 15:17  - ‘This I command you, that you love one another’. -  Jesus repeats His command to His disciples to love one another

 

6.1.         Jesus knows the legalistically bent hearts of men, and He knows that His disciples must continually be reminded that above all else in life, they must continually love one another with God’s agape love.  Fruit-bearing apart from agape love is not fruit bearing, it is a sounding gong or a clanging cymbal as Paul said in 1 Cor. 13.

 

6.2.         There are a number of passages in the New Testament that repeat this same theme that we as Christians are to walk in love and love others in the same way that the Lord loved us, including :

 

6.2.1.  Ephesians 5:2, “2 and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.” 

 

6.2.2.  1 John 4:7-11, “7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. 8 The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love. 9 By this the love of God was manifested in us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world so that we might live through Him. 10 In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. 11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” 

 

6.2.3.  1 John 3:16, “16 We know love by this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.” 

 

6.2.4.  1 John 4:9-10, “9 By this the love of God was manifested in us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world so that we might live through Him. 10 In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins.”

 

6.3.         Encylopedia Of 7700 Illustrations has the following entry the deals with what a great sacrifice it was that Jesus Christ made for us on Calvary :

 

There has never been found a better illustration of sacrificial love than that in Charles Dicken’s Tale of Two Cities, where Sidney Carton dies for Charles Darney.

 

The young Frenchman has been condemned to die by the guillotine. Sidney Carton is a dissipated English lawyer who has wasted great gifts and quenched high possibilities in riotous living.

 

When he learns the plight of his friend, he determines to save him by laying down his own life—not for the love he has for the man, but for the sake of the man’s wife and child. To that end Carton gains admission to the dungeon the night before the execution, changes garments with the condemned man, and the next day is led out and put to death as Charles Darney. Before he went to the dungeon he had entered the courtyard and remained there for a few minutes alone, looking up at the light in the window of the daughter’s room. He was led by the light of love, but it led straight to a dungeon and thence to the guillotine.

 

As we see him ascending the steps to the place of death, his hands bound behind his back, taking his last look at the world, these words of our Saviour come to mind: “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13).

 

6.4.         We Christians must always ask ourselves if our actions really are matching up with the standard of Christ’s agape love for us.  Are we loving as Jesus loves us?  If the answer is negative, then we must repent for our lives are not bearing fruit for Christ if that be the case.

 

7.                 CONCLUSIONS:

 

7.1.         Hazel Hartwell Simon wrote the following poem about the difference in doing the things that we do out of love ( Do you do what you do in serving the Lord because you love Him? )  :

 

Love Makes Obedience

 

Love makes obedience a thing of joy!

To do the will of one we like to please

Is never hardship, though it tax our strength;

Each privilege of service love will seize!

Love makes us loyal, glad to do or go,

And eager to defend a name or cause;

Love takes the drudgery from common work,

And asks no rich reward or great applause.

Love gives us satisfaction in our task,

And wealth in learning lessons of the heart;

Love sheds a light of glory on our toil

And makes us humbly glad to have a part.

Love makes us choose to do the will of God,

To run His errands and proclaim His truth;

It gives our hearts an eager, lilting song;

Our feet are shod with tireless wings of youth!

 

 

7.2.         Are you truly loving others with the same love that the Lord has loved you?  Are you truly laying your life down for the brethren as you should do?

 

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