Gen.
42-45:8: “Joseph Is Reunited With His Brothers And Father”
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1.
INTRO:
1.1.
In our last
study, we looked at chapter 41 of Genesis.
1.1.1. We saw how what had been revealed to Joseph when he
was a boy about being exalted above his brothers and even father and mother,
was fulfilled. We saw the events that
led Joseph to being placed over the entire nation of
1.1.2. When Pharaoh had a dream and was not able to find
anyone to interpret it, the chief cup bearer told Pharaoh about Joseph and his
ability to interpret dreams. Then,
Pharaoh called for Joseph and Joseph came and interpreted the Pharaoh’s
dream. When Pharaoh realized that Joseph’s
interpretation was from the Lord, he placed Joseph in a high position over all
of
1.1.3. We saw two things in that study that have
never been exceeded in history, making it an incredible story:
1.1.3.1.A greater reversal of fortunes for good
has never happened to a person than what happened with Joseph.
1.1.3.2.A nation has never since taken heed to
God’s counsel in order to avoid a tragedy as
1.2.
In
our study today, we are going to look at Genesis 42-45:8.
1.2.1. This is the incredibly moving story of how Joseph
becomes reconciled back to his brothers and family. We will see how that grace and forgiveness
wins out in the end, and also how that the heritage of the godly seed of the
woman, Jesus Christ, is preserved through a dire seven year famine.
1.2.2. When our story picks up today, it has been
over twenty years since the day that Joseph’s brothers sold him as a slave to
some Ishmaelites who were headed to
1.2.3. We will see that when Jacob’s family runs
out of grain that he sends all but one of his sons to Egypt to purchase grain
so that they might not starve to death.
When the men get to
1.2.4. We will see that Joseph sets up several
tests for his brothers so that he might know if they were still as reckless and
wicked as they had been when they had sold him as a slave twenty years prior,
after initially planning to kill him.
1.2.5. After initially sending the brothers to
jail for three days, Joseph retains Simeon and makes the rest of the brothers
return home and bring back Benjamin, the only brother Joseph had by his mother. Finally, when Joseph’s brothers have passed
all of his tests, he reveals himself to his brothers and is finally reunited
with them.
1.2.6. Joseph tells his brothers that he holds no
resentment towards them and that he realizes that though they were at fault in
doing what they had done to him that nonetheless the Lord had a purpose in what
he had gone through because of being sold into slavery.
1.2.7. We will see both
2.
VS 42:1-5 - “1
Now
Jacob saw that there was grain in
2.1.
Here we see that
when Jacob realized that there was grain that could be purchased in
2.2.
The famine was
dire all over the world at this time, some had already died of starvation. Jacob tells his sons to get down to
2.3.
Note also that Jacob
was not willing to let his youngest son, Benjamin, go with the rest of his sons
down to
3.
VS 42:6-17 - “6
Now
Joseph was the ruler over the land; he was the one who sold to all the people
of the land. And Joseph’s brothers came and bowed down to him with their faces
to the ground. 7 When Joseph saw his
brothers he recognized them, but he disguised himself to them and spoke to them
harshly. And he said to them, “Where have you come from?” And they said, “From
the
3.1.
When the brothers
get to
3.2.
Recognizing his
brothers, Joseph spoke harshly with them.
3.3.
In fulfillment of
the dreams that Joseph had when just a boy, the brothers immediately ‘bowed down
to him with their faces to the ground,’
and we read here that ‘Joseph remembered the dreams which he had about them.’
3.4.
Joseph had
considered that eventually his family would have to come to him to buy grain
because the famine was in all of the countries.
He wanted to be reconciled to his family but wondered if his brothers
were still as cruel wanton to perform evil as they were twenty years earlier
when they had because of their jealousy of him resolved to sell him off as a
slave, after an initial discussion of killing him. Joseph must have wondered if these brothers
of his could ever be the patriarchs that God wanted them to be, and if God’s
plans in the earth for the godly seed, who would crush the head of Satan, could
be fulfilled through his family.
3.5.
With
3.6.
In Joseph’s first
test of his brothers to see if their hearts had truly changed and they had
repented of their sins before the Lord, he accuses them of having an ulterior
motive in coming to buy grain. He
accuses them of coming to spy out the land for an attack against them.
3.7.
The brothers try
to defend their innocence by telling Joseph through the interpreter that they
are honest people and twelve brothers of one father, that one of their brothers
is no more, and that the youngest brother is at home with his father. Joseph again accuses them of lying and of
coming to spy out their land.
3.8.
Joseph throws the
whole group in the prison for three days, mentioning that they will have to
return later with their younger brother.
4.
VS 42:18-27 - “18
Now
Joseph said to them on the third day, “Do this and live, for I fear God: 19 if you are honest men, let one of your brothers be
confined in your prison; but as for the rest of you, go, carry grain for
the famine of your households, 20
and bring your youngest brother to me, so your words may be verified, and
you will not die.” And they did so. 21 Then they said to one another, “Truly we are guilty
concerning our brother, because we saw the distress of his soul when he pleaded
with us, yet we would not listen; therefore this distress has come upon us.” 22 Reuben answered them, saying, “Did I not tell you,
‘Do not sin against the boy’; and you would not listen? Now comes the reckoning
for his blood.” 23 They did not know,
however, that Joseph understood, for there was an interpreter between them. 24 He turned away from them and wept. But when he
returned to them and spoke to them, he took Simeon from them and bound him
before their eyes. 25 Then Joseph gave orders
to fill their bags with grain and to restore every man’s money in his sack, and
to give them provisions for the journey. And thus it was done for them. 26 So they loaded their donkeys with their grain and
departed from there.”
- After three days, Joseph released all
of the brothers but Simeon to go back to Canaan and bring their youngest
brother, and the brothers took the bags of grain that they had paid for, but
Joseph first had his servant put each man’s money back into his sack before
they left to go back to
4.1.
On the third day,
Joseph came to his brothers and told them that he feared God and that if they
wanted to live then they must let one of their brothers stay behind in prison
and then go back to their family but bring their youngest brother back with
them.
4.2.
Joseph’s brothers
didn’t recognize him yet and they didn’t realize either that he understood all
of their speaking. The brothers begin at
this point to discuss amongst themselves that these things were happening to
them because they had not had compassion on young Joseph, even when they ‘saw
the distress of his soul when he pleaded’ with them. They sensed God was dealing with them for
their sin.
4.3.
Joseph might have
wondered if Reuben, the oldest of the brothers, had been the main culprit in
causing him to be sold into slavery.
However, Joseph heard Reuben say to his brothers that he had told them back
then not to ‘sin against the boy.’
But, they wouldn’t listen to Reuben.
We saw when we studied that section of Genesis where Joseph was sold,
that the fact that Reuben had slept with his father’s concubine before this had
caused him to lose all moral authority with his brothers. For this reason, though Reuben was the oldest
son his brothers would not listen to his counsel when he tried to restrain them
from harming Joseph.
4.4.
Because Reuben
was not the main instigator in getting him sold as a slave, Joseph knew that
Simeon must have been the main culprit.
This assumption by Joseph also took into account the fact that it was
Levi and Simeon that previously had deceived the Schemites and slew the men of
the city after promising them that if they got circumcised that they would let
the men of the city intermarry with their family, and the man Hamor could take
their sister Dana as a wife. For this
reason, Joseph required that Simeon be left in the prison until the rest of the
brothers brought their youngest brother Benjamin with them to Joseph in
4.5.
Joseph had one of
his servants put each man’s money back into his sack and then the men headed
back to their home in the
4.6.
By requiring that
his brothers bring back with them Benjamin, his younger brother by the same
mother, Joseph was testing his brothers to see if they had killed or treated
Benjamin as they had treated him twenty years earlier.
5.
VS 42:27-35 - “27
As
one of them opened his sack to give his donkey fodder at the lodging
place, he saw his money; and behold, it was in the mouth of his sack. 28 Then he said to his brothers, “My money has been
returned, and behold, it is even in my sack.” And their hearts sank, and they turned
trembling to one another, saying, “What is this that God has done to us?” 29 When they came to their father Jacob in the land
of Canaan, they told him all that had happened to them, saying, 30 “The man, the lord of the land, spoke harshly with
us, and took us for spies of the country. 31 “But we said to him, ‘We are honest men; we are
not spies. 32 ‘We are twelve brothers,
sons of our father; one is no longer alive, and the youngest is with our father
today in the
5.1.
When the brothers
got close to their home one of them opened his sack to give his donkey some
fodder and discovered that his money was in the mouth of his sack. He told his brothers about finding his money
and ‘their hearts sank’ because they knew they were probably going to be
accused of stealing from Pharaoh whenever they returned to
5.2.
The brothers tell
their father about one of the brothers finding his money in his sack. Then, they discover that each of them has his
money in his sack.
5.3.
The brothers ‘were
dismayed’ by this turn of events.
They were becoming more and more convinced that God was dealing with
them for what they had done to their brother Joseph when they sold him into
slavery.
6.
VS 42:36-38 - “36
Their
father Jacob said to them, “You have bereaved me of my children: Joseph is no
more, and Simeon is no more, and you would take Benjamin; all these things are
against me.” 37 Then Reuben spoke to his father,
saying, “You may put my two sons to death if I do not bring him back to
you; put him in my care, and I will return him to you.” 38 But Jacob said, “My son shall not go down with
you; for his brother is dead, and he alone is left. If harm should befall him
on the journey you are taking, then you will bring my gray hair down to Sheol
in sorrow.”” - Joseph blames his sons for
taking Joseph from him and now Simeon, then he forbids them to take Benjamin
back with them to
6.1.
Jacob now begins
to blame his sons for everything. They
were responsible for him losing Joseph; they were responsible for Simeon being
taken; and, they were responsible for his losing Benjamin now.
6.2.
Note here that
Jacob was failing this test of his faith for he says that everything was going
against him all of them time.
6.3.
Reuben speaks
without really thinking and offers that if he does not make sure that he brings
back Benjamin alive from
6.4.
Jacob refuses to
allow the brothers to take Benjamin back with them to
7.
VS 43:1-10 - “1
Now
the famine was severe in the land. 2 So it came about when they had finished eating the grain which they had
brought from
7.1.
The famine was so
severe in the land that Jacob finally realized that with all of their grain
having been eaten that they were all going to die. There was no way that he could continue to
disallow Benjamin from going with his brothers back to
7.2.
8.
VS 43:11-15 - “11
Then
their father Israel said to them, “If it must be so, then do this: take
some of the best products of the land in your bags, and carry down to the man
as a present, a little balm and a little honey, aromatic gum and myrrh,
pistachio nuts and almonds. 12
“Take double the money in your hand, and take back in your hand the
money that was returned in the mouth of your sacks; perhaps it was a mistake. 13 “Take your brother also, and arise, return to the
man; 14 and may God Almighty
grant you compassion in the sight of the man, so that he will release to you
your other brother and Benjamin. And as for me, if I am bereaved of my
children, I am bereaved.” 15 So the men took this
present, and they took double the money in their hand, and Benjamin;
then they arose and went down to
8.1.
We note here that
in this verse Jacob begins to be referred to by his God-given name of “
8.2.
Jacob (“
8.3.
Likewise, Jacob
gives his sons twice the money that they had paid before their grain, plus the
money that they had found in the bags when they returned from
8.4.
Jacob sends off
his sons with this blessing: ‘May God
Almighty grant you compassion in the sight of the man so that he will release
to you your other brother and Benjamin.’
9.
VS 43:16-25 - “16
When
Joseph saw Benjamin with them, he said to his house steward, “Bring the men
into the house, and slay an animal and make ready; for the men are to dine with
me at noon.” 17 So the man did as Joseph
said, and brought the men to Joseph’s house. 18 Now the men were afraid, because they were brought
to Joseph’s house; and they said, “It is because of the money that was
returned in our sacks the first time that we are being brought in, that he may
seek occasion against us and fall upon us, and take us for slaves with our
donkeys.” 19 So they came near to
Joseph’s house steward, and spoke to him at the entrance of the house, 20 and said, “Oh, my lord, we indeed came down the
first time to buy food, 21 and it came about when we
came to the lodging place, that we opened our sacks, and behold, each man’s
money was in the mouth of his sack, our money in full. So we have brought it
back in our hand. 22 “We have also brought
down other money in our hand to buy food; we do not know who put our money in
our sacks.” 23 He said, “Be at ease, do
not be afraid. Your God and the God of your father has given you treasure in
your sacks; I had your money.” Then he brought Simeon out to them. 24 Then the man brought the men into Joseph’s house
and gave them water, and they washed their feet; and he gave their donkeys
fodder. 25 So they prepared the
present for Joseph’s coming at noon; for they had heard that they were to eat a
meal there.”
- When Joseph saw that his brothers had
brought back with them Benjamin, their younger brother, he had the men brought
to his house and a meal was prepared for them, and when the brothers spoke to
the Joseph’s steward about the fact that their money was in their sacks when
they returned, the steward told tem that their God must have put the treasure
into their sacks
9.1.
When Jacob’s sons
arrived in
9.2.
The brothers were
afraid because Joseph had invited them to his house instead of interrogating
them for theft. They feared that men
would fall upon them there and enslave them.
It is interesting to see their consciences at work. That had sold Joseph as a slave and now they
feared that they would be sold as slaves.
9.3.
When the brothers
told Joseph’s steward how that they did not understand how that their money had
ended back in their sacks and that they did not steal the money, the steward
told them that it must have been their God who put their money back because he
had received their money. This steward
was surely told by Joseph exactly what he was to say to them about their money
being returned.
9.4.
When the brothers
came into the house they were surprised to find that Simeon was also released
and joined them at dinner.
9.5.
The brothers were
given water to wash their feet and their donkeys were fed for them.
10.
VS 43:26-30 - “26
When
Joseph came home, they brought into the house to him the present which was in
their hand and bowed to the ground before him. 27 Then he asked them about their welfare, and said,
“Is your old father well, of whom you spoke? Is he still alive?” 28 They said, “Your servant our father is well; he is
still alive.” They bowed down in homage. 29 As he lifted his eyes and saw his brother
Benjamin, his mother’s son, he said, “Is this your youngest brother, of whom
you spoke to me?” And he said, “May God be gracious to you, my son.” 30 Joseph hurried out for he was deeply
stirred over his brother, and he sought a place to weep; and he entered
his chamber and wept there.” - Joseph came
home and they brought their present to him, and he asked about their father,
then when he saw Benjamin he asked them if he was their youngest brother, but
then he was so deeply stirred over seeing his brother he had to leave to go
into his chamber and weep
10.1. When Joseph finally came to the house the brothers
gave them the gift that their father had given them to give him.
10.2. Joseph asked if their father was still alive and well,
and was given an affirmative answer.
10.3. When Joseph saw Benjamin, his younger brother from the
same mother, he couldn’t handle it and left immediately to go to his chamber
and weep.
11.
VS 43:31-34 - “31
Then
he washed his face and came out; and he controlled himself and said, “Serve the
meal.” 32 So they served him by
himself, and them by themselves, and the Egyptians who ate with him by
themselves, because the Egyptians could not eat bread with the Hebrews, for
that is loathsome to the Egyptians. 33 Now they were seated before him, the firstborn according
to his birthright and the youngest according to his youth, and the men looked
at one another in astonishment. 34
He took portions to them from his own table, but Benjamin’s portion was
five times as much as any of theirs. So they feasted and drank freely with him.” - Joseph washed his face and returned to his
brothers and told his servants to serve the mean, and they were seated so that
the brothers were in the order of their age, the Egyptians were at a table by
themselves, and Joseph by himself, but Joseph had Benjamin given five times as
much as any of the other brothers
11.1. Joseph ordered the meal to be served, and he had each
table set accordingly:
11.1.1.The brothers were at their own table, and Joseph had
them seated in the order of their ages.
11.1.1.1.There are an incredible number of orders that eleven
people could be seated in, and I have read that the odds of this happening by
chance turns out to be almost one in forty million.
11.1.1.2.The fact that the brothers had all been seated in
their birth order must have reinforced their apprehension that God was judging
them for what they had done to their brother Joseph twenty years earlier.
11.2. The next test that Joseph had for the brothers is that
he had Benjamin given five times the portions given to the other brothers in
order to see how the other brothers would treat Benjamin as a result of
this. Would they act with jealousy
towards Benjamin as they had acted in jealousy towards Joseph when he was
favored by his father?
12.
VS 44:1-14 - “1
Then
he commanded his house steward, saying, “Fill the men’s sacks with food, as
much as they can carry, and put each man’s money in the mouth of his sack. 2 “Put my cup, the silver cup, in the mouth of the
sack of the youngest, and his money for the grain.” And he did as Joseph had
told him. 3 As soon as it was light,
the men were sent away, they with their donkeys. 4 They had just gone out of the city, and were
not far off, when Joseph said to his house steward, “Up, follow the men; and
when you overtake them, say to them, ‘Why have you repaid evil for good? 5 ‘Is not this the one from which my lord drinks and
which he indeed uses for divination? You have done wrong in doing this.’ ” 6 So he overtook them and spoke these words to them.
7 They said to him, “Why does
my lord speak such words as these? Far be it from your servants to do such a
thing. 8 “Behold, the money which
we found in the mouth of our sacks we have brought back to you from the
12.1. As Joseph’s brothers are getting ready to leave, Joseph
again tells his steward to return each man’s money to his sack. However, for he yet another test of the
brothers he tells the steward to put the cup that he does divination with
placed in Benjamin’s sack. Joseph
determines to see how the brothers react when Benjamin is found with Joseph’s
cup.
12.2. When the men had just left the city, Joseph sent his
steward to follow after them and accuse them of stealing Joseph’s divination
cup. When the man apprehended Joseph’s
brothers they denied to a man that they had stolen Joseph’s cup. They even recommended that if any of them be
found with his cup that he should be put to death. They also tell the steward that their
innocence should be seen merely in the fact that they had returned their money
they had found in their sacks before.
12.3. The steward then tells the brothers that the one who
should have Joseph’s divination cup would then be his slave. When a search was made the cup was found in
Benjamin’s sack.
12.4. The brothers passed another test here. When the cup was found in Benjamin’s sack,
rather than turn on him and testify against him, they instead ‘tore their
clothes’ because they were sincerely depressed that their brother had been
found to have the cup.
12.5. The brothers reloaded their donkeys and headed back to
13.
VS 44:13-44 - “14
When
Judah and his brothers came to Joseph’s house, he was still there, and they
fell to the ground before him. 15
Joseph said to them, “What is this deed that you have done? Do you not know
that such a man as I can indeed practice divination?” 16 So
13.1. When the brothers are brought before Joseph they again
fall upon their faces before him, and he asks them how they could spurn his
gifts and kindness to them by stealing the cup that he uses for his
divination?
13.2. The brothers do not try to plead their innocence
because the proof of their guilt was just too overwhelming.
13.3. What
14.
VS 45:1-8 - “1
Then
Joseph could not control himself before all those who stood by him, and he
cried, “Have everyone go out from me.” So there was no man with him when Joseph
made himself known to his brothers. 2 He wept so loudly that the Egyptians heard it, and the household of
Pharaoh heard of it. 3
Then Joseph said to his brothers, “I am Joseph! Is my father still alive?”
But his brothers could not answer him, for they were dismayed at his presence. 4 Then Joseph said to his brothers, “Please come
closer to me.” And they came closer. And he said, “I am your brother Joseph,
whom you sold into
14.1. Joseph’s brothers had passed every test that he had
put before them, and he knew now that they were fit to fulfill their roles as
the patriarchs God had called them to be.
So, Joseph now was overcome with emotion because of his desire to reveal
himself to his brothers and be reconciled and reunited with them.
14.2. Joseph told all of his servants go out from the room
so that he could be alone with his brothers.
He then began to weep so loudly that the Egyptians in the rest of the
house and even in Pharaoh’s house could hear him. Then, he spoke to his brothers in their
Hebrew dialect and told them: “I am
your brother Joseph whom you sold into
14.3. After Joseph told his brothers who he was they were
speechless and ‘dismayed at his presence.’
14.4. Joseph asks his brothers if his father is alive, but
what he was really asking was how his father is in more specific detail about
him. He had already been told that his
father was alive and well.
14.5. Joseph asks his brothers to come close to him, and
then he tells them not to be grieved or angry with themselves about what they
had done to him twenty years earlier when they had sold him into slavery. He tells them that it all came about because
of the Lord’s desire to spare them when this famine struck. In fact, it was to spare life in general that
he had been sold into slavery.
14.5.1.Joseph’s words here are a tremendous example to us to
look at things that happen in our lives from the perspective that even though
we do not know why God allows some things to occur, that nonetheless He has a
very good reason for the things that come into our life.
14.5.2.Joseph is also an example to us of how when we look at
things from God’s perspective we can forgive those who have done bad things to
us. God allows all things to happen in
our life in order that He can work His purposes in us.
14.6. Joseph acts as a type of Christ in that He forgives
the sins of those who had sinned against him, and he does not hold any of their
transgressions against them. Further, he
tells them not to grieve or be angry with themselves, which is similar to the
work of justification that occurs in the life of a believer when he has
received Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior.
15.
CONCLUSIONS
15.1. Remember Joseph when someone has wronged you and look
at your situation as being something that God has allowed into your life for
some good purpose, though you may not realize what it is at the time.
15.2. We are also called upon to be willing to lay our lives
down for our brethren in the same way Jesus Christ laid His life down for us,
and
15.3. Realize that God is causing all things to work
together for good in our lives, as Joseph realizes in our study, and Romans
8:28 tells us.
15.4. Learn to forgive others as Joseph forgave his brothers
and did not hold their wrong against them.