Gen. 16-18:
“Hagar Given As A Surrogate Mother / Abraham Circumcises His Household / The
Birth Of Isaac Promised”
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1.
INTRO:
1.1.
In our last study
we looked at chapters 14-15 of the book of Genesis.
1.1.1. Abraham had to rescue his nephew Lot when a band of
kings pillaged the land and conquered the city of
1.1.2. When Abraham returned victorious with Lot we saw him
make a sacrifice and give a tithe to a king of
1.1.3. Finally, the Lord again appeared to Abraham and
re-stated His covenant with Abraham, ratifying it by performing a peculiar
rite. We saw that Abraham believed God
and that his faith was reckoned to him as righteousness. We looked at how by his faith being reckoned
to him as righteousness that the scriptures tell us that Abraham serves as a
type of those who trust in Jesus Christ and what He did upon Calvary’s cross in
dying for our sins, in order to receive salvation.
1.2.
In our study
today, we are going to look at chapters 16-18 of Genesis.
1.2.1. We will see that Sarah becomes a schemer just as
Abraham previously had schemed telling Sarah to tell those in
1.2.2. We begin to see that the Lord is a holy God when He
appears to Abraham telling him to be blameless in all that he does, and then
tells him that he must circumcise all of those born in his household and even
living in his house. It only makes sense
for us to worship and serve a God who is holy and just, and I cannot imagine worshipping
and serving an angry, vengeful, imperfect, and unpredictable God.
1.2.3. We will see how that the Lord tells Abraham that Sarah
will conceive a child in one year, and when Sarah overhears this how that she
has unbelief in her heart and laughs at the news and is rebuked by the Lord for
this.
1.2.4. Finally, we will see how that the Lord appears to
Abraham and tells him of His plans to destroy the city of
2.
VS 16:1-4a - “1
Now Sarai, Abram’s wife had borne him no children, and she had an
Egyptian maid whose name was Hagar. 2 So Sarai said to Abram, “Now behold, the Lord
has prevented me from bearing children. Please go in to my maid; perhaps
I will obtain children through her.” And Abram listened to the voice of Sarai. 3 After Abram had lived ten years in the land of
Canaan, Abram’s wife Sarai took Hagar the Egyptian, her maid, and gave her to
her husband Abram as his wife. 4
He went in to Hagar, and she conceived;”
- Sarah realizes she hasn’t yet
conceived a child so she convinces Abraham to take her Egyptian maid Hagar as a
concubine, which he does, and Hagar conceives a child
2.1.
Well, I guess you can say now that there was some
negative consequence of Abraham and Sarah fleeing to
2.2.
We in our 21st century
2.3.
In the cultures of that time, if a woman could not bear
children she would sometimes look to a surrogate wife for her husband to bear
children. So, we can understand how that
Sarah might have thought that implementing a worldly way of dealing with things
might just be a good thing. Besides, as
far as we know God hadn’t ever directly forbidden polygamy at this point.
2.4.
Whenever we
attempt to help out the Lord we get into trouble. The Lord wants us to trust in Him and to
allow Him to do His work and provide for us, not attempt to solve a problem
with the cleverness of our fleshly mind.
What great grief we cause ourselves trying to help God out (as if He
needed our help).
3.
VS 16:4b-6 - “and when she saw that
she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her sight. 5 And Sarai said to Abram, “May the wrong done me be
upon you. I gave my maid into your arms, but when she saw that she had
conceived, I was despised in her sight. May the Lord
judge between you and me.” 6 But Abram said to Sarai, “Behold, your maid is in your power; do to her
what is good in your sight.” So Sarai treated her harshly, and she fled from
her presence.” - Hagar begins to treat Sarah poorly after she
becomes pregnant with Abraham’s child and so Abraham allows Sarah to do with
Hagar what she will, so Sarah treated Hagar harsly until Hagar finally fled
from Sarah’s presence
3.1.
When Hagar becomes pregnant she becomes jealous of Sarah,
Abraham’s proper wife, and she schemes herself trying to win Abraham’s affections for herself alone. Being jealous of Sarah, she began to do some
sort of mean things to Sarah.
3.2.
Imagine, giving
another woman to your husband as a surrogate wife and then you end up having a
life full of complications and having a tiff with your husband?!
3.3.
The Blame Game
begins again. Just as in chapter 3 of
Genesis when after eating of the forbidden fruit and being confronted by the
Lord, Adam blamed his wife whom the Lord had given him and she blamed the
serpent for tempting her, so now Sarah blames Abraham for what Hagar is doing
to her. She needs to take responsibility
for her part in this whole thing, after all it was her idea and prodding that
put this plan in motion.
3.3.1. It is so important for us as people to take responsibility
for our failures and sins. Denying them
or blaming others for them do us no good.
3.4.
To Sarah, Hagar
was sort of an indentured servant on the level of a slave. Therefore, in a callous manner Abraham tells
Sarah that she can deal with Hagar like a slave and do whatever to her that she
wants. This woman was carrying Abraham’s
biological son, therefore at least for his son’s sake Abraham ought to have had
compassion on Hagar.
3.5.
Sarah decides to
retaliate and treat Hagar meanly just as Hagar had treated her, again another
ungodly action characteristic of those who are walking according to the
flesh. In the New Testament we read
about the way in which we ought to treat those who are mean to us or hate us:
3.5.1. 1 Thessalonians 5:15, “15 See that no one repays
another with evil for evil, but always seek after that which is good for one
another and for all people.”
3.5.2. Matthew 5:44, “44 “But I say to you,
love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.””
4.
VS 16:7-14 - “7 Now the angel of the Lord found her by a spring of water in the wilderness, by
the spring on the way to Shur. 8
He said, “Hagar, Sarai’s maid, where have you come from and where are you
going?” And she said, “I am fleeing from the presence of my mistress Sarai.” 9 Then the angel of the Lord said to her, “Return to your mistress, and submit
yourself to her authority.” 10
Moreover, the angel of the Lord
said to her, “I will greatly multiply your descendants so that they will be too
many to count.” 11 The angel of the Lord said to her further, “Behold, you
are with child, And you will bear a son; And you shall call his name Ishmael,
Because the Lord has given heed to
your affliction. 12 “He will be a wild donkey
of a man, His hand will be against everyone, And everyone’s hand will
be against him; And he will live to the east of all his brothers.” 13 Then she called the name of the Lord who spoke to her, “You are a God
who sees”; for she said, “Have I even remained alive here after seeing Him?” 14 Therefore the well was called Beer-lahai-roi;
behold, it is between Kadesh and Bered.” - The angel of the Lord finds Hagar by a well
and encourages her to return to Sarah and submit to her authority, and then the
angel encourages Hagar that she too will have many descendants through this son
she is carrying, however the angel tells Hagar that the boy will be named
Ishmael because he will be a donkey of a man and his hand will be against
everyone and their hand will be against him
4.1.
The Lord had compassion upon Hagar after she fled from
Sarah, after all her difficulty was not all of her own doing. Here is the first instance of the Lord
meeting someone at a ‘spring of water,’ and in the Old Testament we see
that the Lord often meets His people at springs of water. Perhaps just as a
spring brings refreshing to people, so too the Lord desires to show people that
He is the true refreshment and source of life.
4.2.
The Lord most likely saves Hagar’s life here since she
was trying to flee from Canaan back to her home in Egypt and was not equipped
no did she have provisions for such a flight.
4.3.
The ‘angel of the Lord’ is often a phrase that we
find in the Old Testament that refers to a pre-incarnate theophany of Jesus
Christ, where He appeared in human form.
The word ‘angel’ means messenger, and the Lord Jesus Christ has
chosen at times to be such a messenger.
I believe this is such an incident because the angel speaks in the first
person to Abraham (“I will do such and so…”), and Hagar calls the angel ‘Lord,’
and is not rebuffed for doing so.
4.4.
The Lord commands Hagar to return to Sarah and also to
submit to her authority over her life.
Hagar was most likely considered one of God’s people at this time, and
she obeys the voice of the Lord.
4.5.
The Lord also commands Hagar to name her child ‘Ishmael,’
which means “God hears.” God had
heard Hagar’s cries and the desperation of her heart and now her child was
meant to be a constant reminder to her of God’s having heard her and answered
her prayer, saving her very life.
4.6.
The Lord has compassion on Hagar as well as her child,
however notice here what the Lord tells Hagar about this son she will give
birth to, “He will be a wild donkey of a man, His hand will be against
everyone, And everyone’s hand will be against him; And he will live to
the east of all his brothers.” In
several places in scripture, including Gen. 37:25-28, Gen. 39:1, and Judges
8:22-24, you read about these people called the “Ishmaelites.” Being descendants of Ishmael through Abraham,
they are descendants of Shem. The twelve
tribes which came from Ishmael are:
Nabajoth, Mibsam, Kedar, Adbeel, Mishma, Dumah,
4.7.
Ishmael it says literally in the text will be ‘a wild
ass of a man,’ and he will be against everyone and everyone will be against
him. The Arabs have been a perennial
thorn in
5.
VS 16:15-16 - “15 So Hagar bore Abram a son; and Abram called the name
of his son, whom Hagar bore, Ishmael. 16 Abram was eighty-six years old when Hagar bore
Ishmael to him.” - Hagar bears a son and names him Ishmael
5.1.
Hagar obeyed the Lord and returned to Sarah, and then
gave birth to her son and named him Ishmael.
5.2.
Abraham was 86 years old when Ishmael is born, and it
will be another 13 years before Isaac is born.
It seems that God’s people spend most of their time waiting upon God’s
time in their lives. Waiting on the Lord
is a very important activity for it causes our character to be purified by the
Lord and He builds perseverance in serving Him through those times of waiting
on Him.
6.
VS 17:1-5 - “1 Now when Abram was ninety-nine years old, the Lord appeared to Abram and said to him,
“I am God Almighty; Walk before Me, and be blameless. 2 “I will establish My covenant between Me and you,
And I will multiply you exceedingly.” 3 Abram fell on his face, and God talked with him,
saying, 4 “As for Me, behold, My
covenant is with you, And you will be the father of a multitude of nations. 5 “No longer shall your name be called Abram, But
your name shall be Abraham; For I will make you the father of a multitude of
nations.” - The Lord again appears to Abraham when he is
99 years old and encourages him to walk blamelessly before him, reminding him
of His covenant promise to multiply him exceedingly, then he changes his name
from Abram to Abraham
6.1.
In verse 1 here
we see a new title for the Lord, He calls Himself ‘God Almighty,’ which
is “El Shaddai” in the Hebrew.
6.2.
Here we see the Lord again appearing to Abram. This time the Lord speaks to Abraham about
being consecrated to the Lord telling him to ‘be blameless.’
6.3.
As the Lord is reiterating the promises He made to Abram,
He also changes Abram’s name to be ‘Abraham.’ ‘Abram’ meant “exalted father,”
and ‘Abraham’ means ‘father of a multitude.’
6.4.
The promises to make of Abraham ‘a multitude of
nations.’ Twelve nations will come
out of Abraham when Jacob’s (
7.
VS 17:6-14 - “6 “I will make you exceedingly fruitful, and I will
make nations of you, and kings will come forth from you. 7 “I will establish My covenant between Me and you
and your descendants after you throughout their generations for an everlasting
covenant, to be God to you and to your descendants after you. 8 “I will give to you and to your descendants after
you, the land of your sojournings, all the
7.1.
The Lord continues to reiterate His covenant promises to
Abraham and now He tells Abraham that He will give all of the land of Canaan as
‘an everlasting possession,’ and the Lord promises that He will be the
God of Abraham’s descendants.
7.2.
The Lord does however require that all of the males in
Abraham’s household must be circumcised as part of the covenant promises made
to Abraham.
7.3.
The Lord’s choosing of the sign of circumcision as being
something that sets His people apart from other peoples is interesting. Just after having told Abraham that he is to
‘be blameless,’ the Lord tells him that the very male sexual organ
itself was to be dedicated to the Lord via the rite of circumcision. Today, most male babies in the civilized
world are circumcised at birth and thus we sort of take circumcision for
granted. However, for Abraham and the
males dwelling under his roof circumcision must have been a very intimate
reminder of the need to obey the Lord and be holy as He is holy.
7.4.
The Lord tells Abraham that the one among his people who
is not circumcised shall be put to death.
7.5.
Chuck Missler
questions how apart from the Lord telling him that Abraham knew to circumcise
babies on the 8th day? He
mentions that Vitamin K, a clotting element, is not formed until the 5th to the
7th day after birth and that Prothrombin, which is also necessary for clotting
is on 30% of normal on the 3rd day but peeks to 110% on the 8th day,
only to level off at 100% of normal after that.
If babies were circumcised before the 8th day it could be
fatal to them because their blood won’t yet clot correctly.
8.
VS 17:15-16 - “15 Then God said to Abraham, “As for Sarai your wife,
you shall not call her name Sarai, but Sarah shall be her name. 16 “I will bless her, and indeed I will give you a
son by her. Then I will bless her, and she shall be a mother of nations;
kings of peoples will come from her.”” - The Lord tells
Abraham that his wife shall now be called Sarah
8.1.
The Lord tells Abraham that ‘Sarai’ shall now be
called ‘Sarah.’ ‘Sarai’
means “princess” and ‘Sarah’ means “a noble woman.” Sarah shall be the mother of kings therefore it
is only appropriate that she shall be called more than a “princess” but
a royal “nobel woman” who would raise kings.
8.2.
The Lord tells Abraham for the first time here that the
child from him that shall inherit these promises shall come from Sarah.
9.
VS 17:17-22 - “17 Then Abraham fell on his face and laughed, and
said in his heart, “Will a child be born to a man one hundred years old? And
will Sarah, who is ninety years old, bear a child?” 18 And Abraham said to God, “Oh that Ishmael might
live before You!” 19 But God said, “No, but
Sarah your wife will bear you a son, and you shall call his name Isaac; and I
will establish My covenant with him for an everlasting covenant for his
descendants after him. 20 “As for Ishmael, I have
heard you; behold, I will bless him, and will make him fruitful and will
multiply him exceedingly. He shall become the father of twelve princes, and I
will make him a great nation. 21
“But My covenant I will establish with Isaac, whom Sarah will bear to you
at this season next year.” 22
When He finished talking with him, God went up from Abraham.” - Abraham laughs at the thought that Sarah
would would now (1 year from now) have a child for she was 90 years old, then
is told that 12 nations shall come out from Ishmael
9.1.
When the Lord tells Abraham that Sarah will give birth to
the son of inheritance he laughs so hard that it states here that he ‘fell
on his face and laughed.’ Since the
Lord had first called Abraham to himself life had been interesting and full of
surprises, but this was the biggest surprise of all.
9.2.
Abraham was 100 years old and Sarah was 90 years
old. They had prayed for children for so
many years yet the Lord had now chosen to answer Abraham and Sarah’s prayer in
their old age. Abraham does not laugh in
unbelief as Sarah will do in the next chapter when she finds out that she is to
bear this child. Abraham’s laughter just
involves the way that the Lord has chosen to bless them and work in their
lives.
9.2.1. These verses should give
old men and women hope that the Lord hears their prayers and can still do great
and mighty works through their lives.
9.3.
The Lord tells Abraham that he will be the father of
twelve princes and that the Lord will make of him a great nation.
9.4.
The Lord tells Abraham that the name of his son shall be
‘Isaac,’ and this name means “laughter,” for Abraham fell on his
face laughing when he was told that his wife at the age of 90 would give birth
to this son.
9.5.
But notice here that the Lord is very specific about whom
it is that He will make His covenant with:
‘But My covenant I will establish with Isaac, whom Sarah will bear to
you.’ The Abrahamic Covenant will
not be extended to Ishmael, though the Lord promises to raise up 12 nations
from him.
9.6.
If the covenant comes through Ishmael (as Islam believes)
then the rest of the Bible after this point is in error for the rest of the
scripture is the unfolding of God’s covenant to the descendants of Isaac,
namely Jacob and his twelve sons, and Jesus Christ who shall descend from the
tribe of Judah.
10.
VS 17:23-27 - “23 Then Abraham took Ishmael his son, and all the
servants who were born in his house and all who were bought with his money,
every male among the men of Abraham’s household, and circumcised the flesh of
their foreskin in the very same day, as God had said to him. 24 Now Abraham was ninety-nine years old when he was
circumcised in the flesh of his foreskin. 25 And Ishmael his son was thirteen years old when he
was circumcised in the flesh of his foreskin. 26 In the very same day Abraham was circumcised, and
Ishmael his son. 27 All the men of his
household, who were born in the house or bought with money from a foreigner,
were circumcised with him.” - Abraham took all of the males in
his household and circumcised them
10.1. In obedience to the Lord
and while also trusting God to protect them, Abraham immediately went and
circumcised every male among them, including even the servants.
10.2. Abraham is an example of
obedience for us today for here for it says that he circumcised all of the
males ‘in the very same day.’
11.
VS 18:1-8 - “1 Now the Lord
appeared to him by the oaks of Mamre, while he was sitting at the tent door in
the heat of the day. 2 When he lifted up his
eyes and looked, behold, three men were standing opposite him; and when he saw them,
he ran from the tent door to meet them and bowed himself to the earth, 3 and said, “My lord, if now I have found favor in
your sight, please do not pass your servant by. 4 “Please let a little water be brought and wash
your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree; 5 and I will bring a piece of bread, that you may
refresh yourselves; after that you may go on, since you have visited your
servant.” And they said, “So do, as you have said.” 6 So Abraham hurried into the tent to Sarah, and
said, “Quickly, prepare three measures of fine flour, knead it and make
bread cakes.” 7 Abraham also ran to the
herd, and took a tender and choice calf and gave it to the servant, and
he hurried to prepare it. 8 He took curds and milk
and the calf which he had prepared, and placed it before them; and he
was standing by them under the tree as they ate.” - Three men appear to Abraham and he bows
before them and asks if he may bring them in and feed them a meal, and then
Abraham hurries to prepare them a meal
11.1. The Lord appears again to
Abraham not too long after the events of chapter 17, since we see here that the
Lord tells Abraham that at the same time next year that Sarah would be giving
birth to a son (this was the same timeframe as God’s promise to Abraham in the
previous chapter).
11.2. Abraham immediately
recognizes that it is the Lord here when he sees ‘three men…standing
opposite him.’ These men appear out
of thin air evidently.
11.3. Most likely one of these
men is the Lord Jesus Christ in His pre-incarnate state, and the other two are
angels.
11.4. After running to meet the
them, Abraham bows before the men and then asks them if he can make a meal for
them. Notice how Abraham hurries and
almost runs to prepare this meal. Abraham’s
hurring is further evidence that Abraham knew that it was the Lord who had
appeared to him.
11.5. Abraham immediately
engages Sarah to begin preparations for this meal. Sarah cooks up some ‘bread cakes’
while Abraham kills a ‘tender and choice calf’ which he prepares. At the meal, Abraham presents to the three
men ‘curds and milk’ along with the meat and bread.
12.
VS 18:9-15 - “9 Then they said to him, “Where is Sarah your wife?”
And he said, “There, in the tent.” 10 He said, “I will surely return to you at this time next
year; and behold, Sarah your wife will have a son.” And Sarah was listening at
the tent door, which was behind him. 11 Now Abraham and Sarah were old, advanced in age; Sarah
was past childbearing. 12 Sarah laughed to herself,
saying, “After I have become old, shall I have pleasure, my lord being old
also?” 13 And the Lord said to Abraham, “Why did Sarah
laugh, saying, ‘Shall I indeed bear a child, when I am so old?’ 14 “Is anything too difficult for the Lord? At the appointed time I will
return to you, at this time next year, and Sarah will have a son.” 15 Sarah denied it however, saying, “I did not
laugh”; for she was afraid. And He said, “No, but you did laugh.”” - The men tell Abraham that at this time next
year that Sarah shall give birth to a son, Sarah overhears the conversation and
laughs at the thought in her heart, then when the men ask why Sarah laughed at
the news, Sarah denies that she laughed, but they tell her that they know
better than that
12.1. We see from these verses
that Abraham wasn’t the best of communicators.
He hadn’t even told Sarah that the Lord had told him that the child that
would be his inheritance would be born of Sarah?! God had even told Abraham the name of the son
they would conceive… Sometimes men can
just be oblivious.
12.1.1.We as Christians need to
realize that God wants us to act as one with our spouse and this means that we
have to learn to communicate with our spouse about everything that is of
importance in our life.
12.2. The Lord knows that Sarah
is behind the tent and overhearing their conversation, and He only asks were
she is so that Abraham can realize that Sarah is hearing Him. The Lord also wanted Sarah to know that the
Lord was aware of her overhearing their conversation.
12.3. Sarah’s laugh here is
much different than the laugh that Abraham had when he heard the news from the
Lord that Sarah would give birth to a son next year. Sarah’s laugh was grounded in unbelief. She really did not believe that what the Lord
said was going to take place. She may
not even have had faith at this time that the Lord could do such a thing as
cause her at the age of 90 to become pregnant and carry a child to full term.
12.4. The men rhetorically ask
Abraham if anything shall be too difficult for the Lord to perform?
13.
VS 18:16-33 - “16 Then the men rose up from there, and looked down
toward
13.1. The Lord has planned to
destroy the cities of
13.1.1.Psalm 25:14, “14 The secret of the Lord is for those who fear Him, And He
will make them know His covenant.”
13.1.2.Amos 3:7, “7 Surely the Lord God does nothing Unless He reveals His
secret counsel To His servants the prophets.”
13.1.3.John 15:15, “15 “No longer do I call
you slaves, for the slave does not know what his master is doing; but I have
called you friends, for all things that I have heard from My Father I have made
known to you.””
13.2. Abraham is acting as an
intercessor before the Lord for the people of
13.3. Abraham asks the Lord if
He will destroy the city if 50 righteous people are living in it. The Lord says He will not destroy it if this
is the case. Then, Abraham asks the same
question about 45, 40, 30, 20, and finally 10.
Each time the Lord says that He will not destroy the city if that number
of righteous people are found in it.
13.4. Do you ever wish that
God’s people in the scripture would have asked God some different and more
specific kinds of questions in their dialog with the Lord? I wish Abraham would have asked the Lord if
He would always remove all of those who are not His people before He poured out
His wrath on the wicked?
13.5. The next chapter will show us that it was never the
Lord’s plan to destroy any righteous along with the wicked, for the angels must
first drive righteous
13.6. The Lord leaves to go
check on the city. We will see that the
only righteous people in the cities of
14.
CONCLUSIONS:
14.1. Don’t scheme and try to help God out in order
to fulfill His plans and will in your life.
14.2. Recognize that our God is
a holy God and make it your goal in life to be holy just as He is holy. This is what Jesus commanded us as His
disciples to do.
14.3. Learn to communicate with
your spouses about all of the important things going on in your life and to act
as “one flesh” with your spouse.